For those "Afraid" that they are gay/lesbian. You're NOT! Read here (From a lesbian).

Thank you so much, I was so scared that i was lesbian.., but now that I think about it these thoughts only started after watching porn thanks again.

Omfg Thanks so much One night Out of no wear I was thinking am I gay And after next morning I feel so sad cause I feel like Am I really gay But I just keep stayed positive There is no way I am gay And now your telling you cannot be gay Overnight etc because before that day I just like girls more then boys

The part about gay people only being scared of how people will react to them is totally wrong. When i was first coming to terms with being gay I was scared of it. It was foreign and seemed wrong, I doubted I was gay and I hated it. Eventually I came to terms with it, but for that period of time I was scared that I was gay, especially since I felt attracted to women (NOT sexually though). I enjoyed the thoughts sexually but emotionally I was pretty distressed.
I think the important distinction here is that fearing having gay thoughts is HOCD, but fearing the thoughts you do have isn't necessarily HOCD.

I am a guy, and I've been watching porn since 5th grade. I am currently going to 9th grade. And I'm scared That i might be gay and I know that I'm straight. It's confusing. Please hel me out. I'm scared and feel like crying. Me being gay... just scares me ):

YOU HELPED ME SOO MUCH!!
I am a girl and I've been scared I was a lesbian for a month now! I don't know how it started but when I was younger I had a huge crush on a boy but then I started to worry. I have had problems with anxiety and you have now made me feel comfortable that I am definitely straight and I can stop panicking that I'm a lesbian!! THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!

Hi everyone, I am a female 20 years old, and I started freaking out because I thought a female on a show had really pretty lips and they looked soft and I wondered what it'd be like to kiss them. I have a boyfriend, I've never had a sexual desire or want to be with a girl instead of a guy. I have kissed a girl before and I felt really uncomfortable and felt weird afterwards, i never wanted to do it again. But i don't know why I keep freaking out about it, and I hate that I keep worrying. Any feedback for me??

I have been really weird for the past four days. Basically, I have recently discovered masturbation and one of the things that turn me on is lesbian oral sex. I'm also very possessive over my friends (girls) when they get boyfriends, although I believe that's because I've never been in a relationship. After seeing my best friend and talking about relationships I wondered if maybe I was a lesbian? I had a dream about liking a girl that looked so much like a dude that I liked her and when I found out (in my dream) that she was a girl I didn't care... It has made me panic a lot! Especially that I do tend to girl crush, I don't have very high self-esteem, and a lot of the girls I meet are smart and pretty. I want to be like them, but, ever since I've considered being a lesbian I feel like I'll never like a guy again! Which to me is impossible since I've always been attracted to guys!! Like they're hot! But I feel like girls are kinder? And prettier? I really don't want to be a lesbian. My family would not want it. It makes me cry to just think about the fact that I could be. (sorry, I know that being a lesbian is perfectly normal, but for some reason, I don't want it) What also scares me is this happened all over two nights.... And I'm obsessing over the thought of never finding guys attractive again..

Hey I'm 13 and im a female me and my friends were watching porn but we don't watch porn that much anyways i was always happy liking guys heck at a young age i wanted to do things with guys a young child should not and so when I turned 13 i thought I was going to die because i was having headaches turns out it was just the stage so after i started having thoughts about girls at first i found them disgusting and i still i hate the idea of dating a girl buts i would have thoughts of vaginas and kissing girls but i don't want to be lesbian and i have been crying over idea because i would look at guy and I would think he's hot and i love the idea of of getting married to man and having kids with him but at the back of my mind it will say your lesbiean and i would cry i would pray to god and im still confused and i would always why cant you make somone who want to lesbiean lesbiean but dont make because I'm happy being straight. and sometimes I would get excited over guys but then sometimes i won't I would look at a girl and get jealous and wish I was pretty like but I wouldn't get excited and if i tried to picture myself with a guy it would be so hard and I would cry and sometimes I can picture myself with guy but it would quickly go back to a girl and I would hate I even tried thinking of memory loss because i hate the idea of being lesbian and the thing is even if did have thoughs sexually about girls i wouldnt feel anything and i aslo dont feel anything for girls please help me

Omg Thank you so much! I'm a girl and I've always been into guys, never had a crush on a girl. I even tried jerking my best friend (girl) off while I was drunk, but halfway through I realized I didn't like it. But after a relationship with a guy ended (whom I loved to bits) I've started having these obsessive thoughts about being lesbian. I keep imagining myself with a girl, then a guy, to check and reassure myself but it just makes it worse. My throat completely vlenches up and I just hold my breath as a reflex, when I think about being with a girl, like I'm very uncomfortable and tense, while I feel relaxed and good thinking about being with a guy, but for some reason this doesn't convince me, since after the breakup I dont really see myself with anybody (still trying to get over it, it's only been a month) And I just keep forcing myself to think about it with many different men and women, and it gives me a headache and makes me nervous. But this really helped me, I'm sure if I was a lesbian I'd feel tense thinking about being with a guy. And of course I dont mind those who are lesbian or gay, whatever they enjoy!

I am so afraid and have been afraid of being lesbian since I was a preteen. I watched porn and have been turned on by men and only men ever since I was young. I have a boyfriend and he turns me on a bunch, but I recently got a vibrator and sometimes fear makes me sexually excited, so I am afraid to get off to women so my mind gets me off to women in straight pint but I hate it and I’m afraid of it! I don’t want to be with a woman but I’m so scared that I am a lesbian!!!! I don’t want to be and I have been attracted to men my entire life! Please help me

m so afraid and have been afraid of being lesbian since I was a preteen. I watched porn and have been turned on by men and only men ever since I was young. I have a boyfriend and he turns me on a bunch, but I recently got a vibrator and sometimes fear makes me sexually excited, so I am afraid to get off to women so my mind gets me off to women in straight pint but I hate it and I’m afraid of it! I don’t want to be with a woman but I’m so scared that I am a lesbian!!!! I don’t want to be and I have been attracted to men my entire life! Please help me