God is punishing me with the guilt of me thinking this is my friends baby because I cheated?

Hi Love,

It is impossible to tell positively without a DNA test.

Sperm can live up to about 5 days.  Conception can occur days after you had sex, it's not immediate.

Odds favor it being your current boyfriend since he ejaculated and the friend did not.  

Hope it helps. 

one thing i forgot to mention was june 8 i had sex with my current boyfriend and he ejaculated inside of me

Dear love pink

Two questions you ask:

1. Which Guy is my baby's father?
2. Could it be that God is punishing me with the guilt ... because I cheated on my boyfriend?

• Which Guy is my baby's father?

1. The conception calendar works on a 28 day cycle and gives estimated dates
2. The possible conception dates are estimated as 11th to 19th
3. It is impossible to tell without a paternity test as there is always a chance of sperm being even in pre-ejaculation fluid.
4. Most likely seems to be your boyfriend, but I don't know if 'most likely' helps

• Could it be that God is punishing me with the guilt ... because I cheated on my boyfriend?

1. Yes it could be that God is punishing you with the guilt ... not vindictively, but educationally.
2. If so, it could be because you cheated on your boyfriend.
3. Or it could also be because you are having sex before marriage.
4. What is your religion? What is your relationship with God?

The religious/spiritual aspects are not generally part of the open forum, but if you want to private message me, I will try to help.

Irrespective of who the father is, you will need to think about (amongst other things):

1. How your boyfriend will react to your infidelity (he may well find out eventually)
2. How you will deal with his reaction
3. How you will strengthen your relationship with him
4. How you will gain forgiveness from your boyfriend
5. God's forgiveness and freedom from guilt

I hope these points help, and if I can further help, please feel free to ask.

Hi Love,

It is impossible to narrow down when you conceived that closely. Normally you would ovulate between days 11 and 16 of your cycle OR about June 12 to June 17. Sperm remains viable for about 5 days, so having sex with your boyfriend on June 8, would be a possibility.

48 hours after ovulation, around June 19, the egg is not viable and you are unlikely to conceive.

A DNA test can give you a definitive answer.

Good luck.

I AGREE YOU DO NEED HELP!!!!! WOWZERS!!!! Girls now a days are so nasty!!!!! Do you not know sleeping with everybody is how diseases are spred!!!! GROSS!!!! And anyone who feels as though i'am wrong for saying this KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!!!!!!

I have a similar situation im going insane, not knowing who it could be. i also think its gods way of punishing me for cheating on my amazing babydaddy of my one year old boy. Im due may 25,2016 first they said 'may 30th i was so confused my first couple of months! I was feeling miserable,that i didnt show up to my confirmation and due date. that i went to a abortion clinic at 3 months in NovEmber they gave me a ultrasound and due date that very same day! (May 30th 2016) And they prayed for me. I dont remeber my LMP very much but all i do is think i can honestly remember the day i cheated we used protection it was the 14th of august and we had sex twice both times used a condom. My babydaddy was only coming to town everyweekend he was coming the next day saturday. So i had two partners in a week. My babydaddy and i never use protection and he always ejaculates inside me. The other guy, the random guy did ejaculate inside of the condom when he ejaculated bt i remember the feeling where he opened my uterus as he ejaculated (he had a big one) same size as my babydaddys bt he is african american black but light skin im white and my BD is tan not any darker. Im confused iv tried the conception calculatar and it does show everythin i need to know bt its hard im stressed im pretty sure someone can help me figure it out its one or the other i have a period evey month that lasts 5-7 days. Usually at the end or begining of each month. With my son he was born on october 30th at exaclry 40weeks. I also look at their ultrasounds pocs they look alike and look like she (btw its a girl im having) could be my babydaddys! I dont recall having a period in august my periods where irregular, cant even remember if i had skipped a month in June.

I have talked to nurses they say i got pregnant in the begining of September, i told them my situation and my head and baby are in much pain and if someone asks me some questoons im gladly to anwser them withich detail as possible as long as u can tell me who the dad is i ha sex withy babys daddy every weekend he came home and always ejaculated in my insides i also remember him and me having passionate sex and him going really deep and opening me up like i mention the random guy doing but, him was with protection, and was only that one day on august 14th.

Can u help me i commented please