Hi, I have cheated my boyfriend with another guy, but he ran into us. He is completely freaked out, what shall I do?
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Hi, I have never seen my boyfriend so mad before, when he ran into me and another gay. He things that I shouldn’t have done that under any circumstances. I was trying to explain, that he was gone for a while, to another city for studying, and I had some problems. It was not difficult for me to fall for anyone, because I was feeling down. It seemed to me like he would not forgive me, and he didn’t. But, I believe that if he can’t trust me again, then it’s better if we are not together. I hope you will manage somehow to sort out this situation, after all everybody makes mistakes.
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If you don't have anything polite and constructive to say. Back the hell off and go somewhere else. Your dirty comments aren't needed here. its not her thats the dumb c**t, Its you. We are all human, we all make our mistakes in life. You've just made yours. Learn and move on.
As for Garbett...
Its not a good thing to have cheated on your boyfriend of course, and getting caught is especially ugly. The best thing i would suggest is to figure out what you want to do. Do you want to be with your boyfriend? Or with the guy you were cheating on him with? Take your pick and move down that route. Whichever you choose you will have to persue. Going back with your boyfriend will NOT be an easy task and may be for nothing in the long run... but if you feel you wish to salvage what you can and stay faithful... try to fix it. Trying is the least you can do to repair what damage has been done.
Talk to your boyfriend if thats your choice. Explain to him you're sorry (if you are of course.) And what you'd like to happen in the relationship. Work on fixing what has been damage and cut off ties with the man you cheated with. Staying "friends" or what-not will only cause more distrust in the repaired relationship and will most likely anger your boyfriend even more.
As for Garbett...
Its not a good thing to have cheated on your boyfriend of course, and getting caught is especially ugly. The best thing i would suggest is to figure out what you want to do. Do you want to be with your boyfriend? Or with the guy you were cheating on him with? Take your pick and move down that route. Whichever you choose you will have to persue. Going back with your boyfriend will NOT be an easy task and may be for nothing in the long run... but if you feel you wish to salvage what you can and stay faithful... try to fix it. Trying is the least you can do to repair what damage has been done.
Talk to your boyfriend if thats your choice. Explain to him you're sorry (if you are of course.) And what you'd like to happen in the relationship. Work on fixing what has been damage and cut off ties with the man you cheated with. Staying "friends" or what-not will only cause more distrust in the repaired relationship and will most likely anger your boyfriend even more.
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that is utterly terrible and im pretty sure he is more devastated than you are
im just saying good luck well not really but eh
im just saying good luck well not really but eh
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Well, im going through this right now, me any my girlfriend had split up for a short while as we are trying to sort things out , and she said to me she needs to go sleep around with other guys to find out if she really loves me ? im not sure why she needs to do this but , my logical thinking process is that , if you love someone you dont need to go around sleeping with other guys to find that out. She never came to me and told me she had slept with another guy i had to find it out from the guy him self. What do i do, walk away from this realtionship after 5 years and move on ?
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Yes. And then you need to do some soul searching and find answers to the following questions:
1. Why couldn't you see that something was wrong with your relationship sooner? You need to be able to detect these things early to develop/maintain healthy relationships and get away from teh unhealthy ones early.
2. Why would you consider staying with a girl who wants to have sex with other guys? That is not normal and indicates possible low self-esteem issues.
Good luck and I hope things look up for you soon.
1. Why couldn't you see that something was wrong with your relationship sooner? You need to be able to detect these things early to develop/maintain healthy relationships and get away from teh unhealthy ones early.
2. Why would you consider staying with a girl who wants to have sex with other guys? That is not normal and indicates possible low self-esteem issues.
Good luck and I hope things look up for you soon.
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you should ask your boyfriend, your victim, how you can repay the emotional crime you've done to him. my girlfriend cheated on me for 5 years. it's more than a year now since i've accidentally discovered her cheatings and lies but until now it still make me mad, angry, revengeful and sad. just so hard to move on.
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There was nothing wrong in their relationship.
She had to come up with an excuse to make herself feel better, after the fact.
She had to come up with an excuse to make herself feel better, after the fact.
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Unfortunately this topic will be divided amongst the cheaters and those who have been cheated and they are an exact opposite of each other.
However my take into this is that, we as human beings are literally individuals, until you know for sure you want to have a monogamous relationship, dont go about pretending to be smarter or better than your partner.
Allow the other individual to accept your choices and if they are not comfortable keep looking and let the person go. Believe me there are freaks out there just like you no matter how bad you think you are.
When you are in a relationship and have the attitude of I dont care, it only means you are about to hurt someone else with your selfishness, which is not cool.
In this case, what you did, gallivanting with your EX was inappropriate and you just didn't care. Second you also said. "If he doesnt trust me than it is not worth it" Guess what? You may end up breaking many hearts with this dementia or stupidity. TRUST is earned just like respect.
You havent seen your EX in a while because they were in another city and 1st opp you get, you hook up with him!! Thats a NO NO NO.
Make sure you dont scrap any skin off anyones back and none will be taken from you... Cheating is an awful thing to do... and thats the truth.
However my take into this is that, we as human beings are literally individuals, until you know for sure you want to have a monogamous relationship, dont go about pretending to be smarter or better than your partner.
Allow the other individual to accept your choices and if they are not comfortable keep looking and let the person go. Believe me there are freaks out there just like you no matter how bad you think you are.
When you are in a relationship and have the attitude of I dont care, it only means you are about to hurt someone else with your selfishness, which is not cool.
In this case, what you did, gallivanting with your EX was inappropriate and you just didn't care. Second you also said. "If he doesnt trust me than it is not worth it" Guess what? You may end up breaking many hearts with this dementia or stupidity. TRUST is earned just like respect.
You havent seen your EX in a while because they were in another city and 1st opp you get, you hook up with him!! Thats a NO NO NO.
Make sure you dont scrap any skin off anyones back and none will be taken from you... Cheating is an awful thing to do... and thats the truth.
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you made the concious decision to do something that u KNEW would crush your boyfriend.
its apparent you didnt really care for your boyfriend because otherwise you wouldnt have cheated. everyone goes through this choice, but you chose to be evil and most people chose to be good.
not only have u destroyed any trust you and your boyfriend coulda/woulda ever had, but u let another man know hes more to you then your current boyfriend which is wut really stabs guys the hardest.
its apparent you didnt really care for your boyfriend because otherwise you wouldnt have cheated. everyone goes through this choice, but you chose to be evil and most people chose to be good.
not only have u destroyed any trust you and your boyfriend coulda/woulda ever had, but u let another man know hes more to you then your current boyfriend which is wut really stabs guys the hardest.
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Hi, Yes everyone makes mistakes but if you really loved him and cared for him you wouldn't have made that mistake.
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