I will try to make this short as possible. Ive been kinda seeing this guy( long story, not gonna get into it) and we had sex for the first time last weekend. Ive been on birth control for about 2 weeks a couple days now. The first time I had sex, i was on the pill for a week and 2 days. I didnt wanna have sex till i was on the pill and condoms just hurt when we tried to do it. I didnt think I would even be able to do it cause when he tried before, it hurt too much and we had to stop. Then just one night he tried and it seemed to go in OKAY. No condom eithier. Got most of it. Still hurt but not as bad. Didnt last too long. We've done it about 3 times now and it seems to get a little better each time. He pulled out each time. I'm kind of shocked I didnt bleed. I know not every girl does but I figured since it hurt so much before, I might bleed. But I didnt at all. It seemed easier than I thought it would be which im kind of glad.
Now another concern I have is the chance of pregnancy. I started taking the pill the first day of my period. In the pamphlet it says I'm protected against pregnancy right away. Ive heard many people say its takes a month but I heard a lot say I should be fine. Ive taken it around the same time each night. A couple nights I was a couople hours late and a couple hours early but I havent missed one pill. Still a little worried about my chances of maybe being pregnant. I havent really had any side effects of the pill eithier.
Any comments will be appreciated! Thanks.
Now another concern I have is the chance of pregnancy. I started taking the pill the first day of my period. In the pamphlet it says I'm protected against pregnancy right away. Ive heard many people say its takes a month but I heard a lot say I should be fine. Ive taken it around the same time each night. A couple nights I was a couople hours late and a couple hours early but I havent missed one pill. Still a little worried about my chances of maybe being pregnant. I havent really had any side effects of the pill eithier.
Any comments will be appreciated! Thanks.
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All women are different when it comes to loosing their virginity. Some bleed, some don't, some scream that it hurts, while others don't. It all depends on the person, the atmosphere, the partner, lubrication, and calmness. If you did not bleed, that's okay. If you finally are able to have successful intercourse, that's good to. Sometimes it takes a few times to get it to where you are comfortable and everything works right.
If you are on your pill, i would say your fine.
If you are on your pill, i would say your fine.
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Well taking the pill on time is very important. So you need to be more precise about this. Try to take your pill every day at the same time. Try not to be late. And you should be fine with birth control pills.
And I agree with bbfeet, everyone is different, but many experience pain in their firs intercourse. It is good that you haven't.
And I agree with bbfeet, everyone is different, but many experience pain in their firs intercourse. It is good that you haven't.
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the standard oral contraceptive pill is said to be effective immediately if you take it on the first day of your period and effective after 7 days at any other time during your cycle.
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The first time I actually had sexual intercourse (penal penetration) I did not bleed but it was painful
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thanks for all the replies. I got my period today! woohoo lol. I'm pretty relieved even though I tried not to worry so much.
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Hey very good news. :-) I really happy for you, and we all know how much worried you have been. If you have any question about anything, pleas post so we can find answer together. It is important that we all share information and help each other.
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