I came across this site... searched a bit, and now have a question of my own.
I am 18, and only recently lost my virginity ( at 18, yes it's late.. I know ). I have hooked up with probably over 100 girls in my time, but for some reason... Sex never phased me, it never crossed my mine... And I mean NEVER !
I idolize my uncle with great passion, he told me he lost his virginity at 18 as well. The opportunity arose when a girl I worked with offered to have sex with me... And of course, I took the opportunity.
She came over, and we went to bed after some time... Now, I'm not sure what it was... But, WHY COULDN'T I GET HARD.?!
I had to masturbate until it was hard, she was then on top, and we had sex for about 1minute, then I went soft. (So, I'm not even sure if it's counted as losing your virginity)
She couldn't hook up for the life of her (her maulers were touching mine? like.. wtf !) and she had a cigarette before hand (they are disgusting). None the less, she wasn't the typical girls I talk to (typical, hot brown skinned, blonde hair blue eyes beach girl), but the opportunity came about, so I took it. I mean, why wouldn't a guy take it?
Now, I get REALLY bad anxiety, but I always thought "sex is sex, it's nothing" but apparently, it is. I didn't think my anxiety would affect this... but in my mind, I keep asking myself "I hope this isn't a sign of being gay"... I mean, I now have "tuned" 5 girls that I am really great friends with, and they all say, "us having sex is inevitable". I sit at night thinking "what if I can't get hard".... I party a lot, and never took hints to take anything further with the girls I hook up with, we just do it... because we are 18? I'm not a dirty sleeze that uses girls.
I'm not sure what to do... The first girl I think I understand, because I was pretty much in love with one of these other girls... What's wrong with me?! My uncle said he lost his virginity at 18, he's now 28, and had got with 20 girls. ( some were girlfriends)
Now I know, comparing myself to him, is stupid, but it makes me think "I'm missing out"... and making the anxiety even WORSE. I'm going into Sydney this weekend coming with a girl, and she said to me... "make sure you bring raincoats"... And I don't want this to happen again..
Possibly I could lsoe my virginity (finally), but according to the dictionary I have, this could just be the follow up. But seriously, WTF IS WRONG.
I am 18, and only recently lost my virginity ( at 18, yes it's late.. I know ). I have hooked up with probably over 100 girls in my time, but for some reason... Sex never phased me, it never crossed my mine... And I mean NEVER !
I idolize my uncle with great passion, he told me he lost his virginity at 18 as well. The opportunity arose when a girl I worked with offered to have sex with me... And of course, I took the opportunity.
She came over, and we went to bed after some time... Now, I'm not sure what it was... But, WHY COULDN'T I GET HARD.?!
I had to masturbate until it was hard, she was then on top, and we had sex for about 1minute, then I went soft. (So, I'm not even sure if it's counted as losing your virginity)
She couldn't hook up for the life of her (her maulers were touching mine? like.. wtf !) and she had a cigarette before hand (they are disgusting). None the less, she wasn't the typical girls I talk to (typical, hot brown skinned, blonde hair blue eyes beach girl), but the opportunity came about, so I took it. I mean, why wouldn't a guy take it?
Now, I get REALLY bad anxiety, but I always thought "sex is sex, it's nothing" but apparently, it is. I didn't think my anxiety would affect this... but in my mind, I keep asking myself "I hope this isn't a sign of being gay"... I mean, I now have "tuned" 5 girls that I am really great friends with, and they all say, "us having sex is inevitable". I sit at night thinking "what if I can't get hard".... I party a lot, and never took hints to take anything further with the girls I hook up with, we just do it... because we are 18? I'm not a dirty sleeze that uses girls.
I'm not sure what to do... The first girl I think I understand, because I was pretty much in love with one of these other girls... What's wrong with me?! My uncle said he lost his virginity at 18, he's now 28, and had got with 20 girls. ( some were girlfriends)
Now I know, comparing myself to him, is stupid, but it makes me think "I'm missing out"... and making the anxiety even WORSE. I'm going into Sydney this weekend coming with a girl, and she said to me... "make sure you bring raincoats"... And I don't want this to happen again..
Possibly I could lsoe my virginity (finally), but according to the dictionary I have, this could just be the follow up. But seriously, WTF IS WRONG.
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I know it's pretty late answering this question but, I have been basically stalking it to see if anyone answered because my boyfriend is the same way! When we fool around , he gets hard but I noticed when we kind of rush it, he has a hard time getting and staying up. I'm a female and even I have problems staying arroused when we rush into things and skip kissing, feeling, moaning etc. if you havnt found an solution, begin with foreplay.. Lots and lots of foreplay. Tell your girls what you like and see if that does the trick.
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