He has excess skin and trouble staying erect for very long:

He's always been sensitive about it and dislikes talking about the problems we experience in the bedroom. He's 27 and always turned on, but he has trouble keeping his erection long enough to insert it. This is very frustrating for both of us and I have a hard time remaining patient because his flaccid penis doesn't feel very good being thrust inside of me. I used to think he had a problem with my physical appearance until I began to see a pattern of dialog:

He'll ask "is it big?" 8-| And I've said "of course it's big" to which he responds "are you lying?" And other times when I reply "size doesn't matter," he'll say "you're saying it's not big?" It's a crazy obsession that I cannot understand. His may not be in the larger percentile but when it's fully erect it pleases me just fine! I'm really not in love with his penis more than his personality. I have told him this many times, and I will keep telling him that his penis is perfect for us.

But our lovemaking has been hindered because of this issue. I am trying to have more patience with him, as he would with me. I would like to help him and maybe see a doctor with him if necessary to solve the problem.

Recently he asked if his penis looks normal. He seems concerned that his head wasn't as large as those he sees in porns. I have noticed that he has a lot of excess skin, and the scar where he was circumcised is crooked. Does this pose a possible explanation for our bedroom problems?

:'(