Okay, so my boyfriend and I have got to the point where we've been discussing sex. Both of us are virgins and he's actually really worried about hurting me... and there are quite a bit of things that seem potentionally pain inducing!
He's almost a full foot taller than me and quite well endowed -- is it going to be extra painful or is he simply worrying over nothing?
He's almost a full foot taller than me and quite well endowed -- is it going to be extra painful or is he simply worrying over nothing?
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His concern is well noted, but the proof of the pudding is in the eating.
That is, you don't know that you'll have problems until you're actually doing it.
There are a couple of things that you can do, if your value system allows.
You two could pleasure each other manual, laying together nude. You can check with your hand just how big he actually is. You have a fair idea of how large you are, except the vagina is an expanding, accomodating organ.
You can use extra lube to make sure that it's good for you, and you can be on top, limiting how much of him you take in. Some women apply a penis ring to limit how deep the penis can go, and use that to assist a couple.
All these are ideas, but you may not have any problems when you get right down to it.
My wife is about a foot short than I am, but we find positions where she gets cuddled, and I can "wrap around" her. There are lots of options if you're open to try them and explore with each other.
Good luck.
That is, you don't know that you'll have problems until you're actually doing it.
There are a couple of things that you can do, if your value system allows.
You two could pleasure each other manual, laying together nude. You can check with your hand just how big he actually is. You have a fair idea of how large you are, except the vagina is an expanding, accomodating organ.
You can use extra lube to make sure that it's good for you, and you can be on top, limiting how much of him you take in. Some women apply a penis ring to limit how deep the penis can go, and use that to assist a couple.
All these are ideas, but you may not have any problems when you get right down to it.
My wife is about a foot short than I am, but we find positions where she gets cuddled, and I can "wrap around" her. There are lots of options if you're open to try them and explore with each other.
Good luck.
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