How does a normal virgin private zone look like?

I'm not completely sure what a virgin vagina is supposed to look like and I kinda want to know to make sure I'm normal. I've searched pictures before, but none of the pictures look similar to my vagina. Yes I have put things up my vagina that was about 1.5 - 2 in wide and 4in long. I think my hymen is torn because there is no way it wouldn't stretch with my vagina being that wide, is there? But I've neverbled when I masturbate nor has it ever hurt. I'm also not sure if it's supposed to be an open hole down there or if it's supposed to look like there is no hole at all (which is what mine looks like). My inner lips are quite big, not too big though, is it normal for a virgin to have about 1in long inner lips? Would I still be considered a virgin if I have masturbated? I normally masturbate every night in the shower, but I have not masturbated in a week, hoping that it will help my vagina to look normal if it doesn't already.