How To Stop Masturbating.

Hancucbai over a year ago

Im christian, and i used to have that problem, i was just as addicted as you all are. I discovered that if you read the bible for 30-60 minutes daily, that the urge to masturbate is no longer there. I am the happiest i have ever been in my entire life, now that i read daily. I no longer have the urge to masturbate, and I have become a much better person for it, and my self of steam has risen tremendousley. P.S. When you read, take notes on what your reading so that you understand it to a greater depth. P.P.S. It does not matter what part of the bible you read, it is all good. Even scripture about something unrelated still helps you overcome your addiction the same as any other verse. Just try it, i know it will work for you, even if you arent christian.

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Guest over a year ago

I personnalh went through the same thing. I was masturbating for 3 years but I asked god for deliverance and I've totally felt a release from the bondage.I've still messed up a few times but it's bc of myself and I feel like a new person. Gidcan bring you through anything!

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luke m over a year ago

i am 18 years old and i have been masterbating mostly every night since i started secondary school about 13 years old, i tried to quit few times but only lasted about a week then back to old ways, i just dont know how to stop from masterbating to much. i just dont want to keep feeling the urge on having to masterbate and when i did try to stop it feels weird and not normal because im used to masterbateing at least once a night. i want to stop because i dont enjoy it as much as i used to and i know its not healthy to keep masterbating to much but could do with advice on the best way to solve my problem,

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Guest over a year ago

i hv tried prayin several times but i still can stop i hv been doing it for like 10 yrs now i somtimes pray and fast but im still doing it how shold i pray to God pls hlp i jst wanna stop it

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BBoy over a year ago

You can do it but you can't just stop cold turkey. You have to slow your machinery down gradually. If you are masturbating every day, then try to only do it every other day for a couple of weeks. Then try to do it only twice a week. Be happy with your progress. Pray for help (and fast too, if that's part of your faith). God wants you to learn how to master your body. He doesn't want you to beat yourself up over this, though. He loves you even more than you love yourself.

You can do it. I know you can.

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Guest over a year ago

On "masturbation is completely normal": "normal" does not mean it is good. Would you follow everyone else just to be normal? So many people smoke cigarettes, it could be considered normal. Whether to masturbate or not to is a choice, and it is a choice we make. Yes, it is natural for humans to want to pleasure themselves, but know this: "True happiness springs from your thoughts and emotions, which you control, and not external circumstances."
You also said, "the safest sex that you can have is with yourself." This is not true. There are dangers to masturbation. I will be the first to admit that masturbation is not the most physically dangerous, although it can be addictive. Repeat, Masturbation Can Be Addictive. This is because of the powerful way it affects the neurotransmitters in our brain. I have heard it compared to a drug and heard it called the Perfect Poison. Although masturbation is not physically harming, is is still wrong and bad, and here's why. Making love to one's self, or masturbating, lacks the emotional intimacy of a couple. Sex is supposed to be only between spouses, and never alone. You can emotionally damage yourself by masturbating.

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luke m223324 over a year ago

thankyou for the advice i really appreciate it and i have slowed down abit now, still finding it hard to resist the temptation at times, but im coping with it better then what i did, i wont go cold turkey, i tried that before but thats just made me masterbate even more after a few days. i just try not to think about it, just keep my mind occupied on something else. which i have been doing alot lately but its mainly just at night time when i feel the urge, its like i cant sleep and relax until i masterbated which to me sounds weird because i just hate feeling forced to do it even when i dont want too. but yeah like i said i am resisting to stop masterbating its hard which to me is understandble as my body isnt used to not masterbating every night. thankyou once again your advice is helpful,

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BBoy over a year ago

You can do it, Luke. Remember to take small steps. Allow yourself to masturbate every other night for a while until your body gets used to that. Don't feel guilty when you do it every other night, just remember that you are doing it half as often as you were. Allow yourself to enjoy the pleasure it brings and the pleasure from knowing that you are in control now. After a couple of weeks, try to go two nights without masturbating, knowing that you will let yourself enjoy it the third night. It's your body and you are in control. You can win this battle!

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luke mccubbine over a year ago

thankyou and youre right i can do it, but i just wont let myself give up easily like i have done the other times, and thankyou i will do that, so far i havent masterbated for 2 nights now which is good but im feeling the consequence of it lol, but yeah i take your advice on that one, thankyou, i needed the motivation,

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Guest over a year ago

I have tried alot of ways to stop the smell but shaving with the blade is the best way to stop it

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ishak over a year ago

good median is about 1 times a month this can help you to overcome the side effect and for some what can help recovery

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Bob over a year ago

Everytime you do it something bad happens - exact same for me, its not your OCD.
After I did it 2 times over a period of a few weeks, I got a cold within the next 1-2 days on each time afterwards. And the other times still something bad just happens, I just have the worst days.

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rakhakakei250987 over a year ago

Hello, in order to blow off the habit, u must have a strong will power. You can also plan a busy daily schedule... Like reading books, playing guitars... Or any other works in order to occupy your mind throughout the day in some activity. In this way you can improve you Talents too.
It is the idle, unexercised body that falls an easy prey of sexual desire.
Moreover it is a sin, and it must be repented!

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Lah265552 over a year ago

I've been masturbating since July,and I feel wrong and sometimes I feel guilty doing it.So can anyone help me stop this addiction because I feel Ashamed of it.Thank You!!!!

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Guest over a year ago

i have masturbated around every other day since i was 12 i am now 21 and every time i try to have sex with a girl, or even recieve oral from the girl i lose my erection. I couldnt sleep last night cause im scared i permantaly altered my erections. i try to stop masturbating but its hard after doing it daily, I can go for as along as a week, but as soon as Im alone, I give in, It is totally ruining my sex life. Im scared to meet women, knowing i will not be able to perform and satisfy them, i think the best advice ive seen is "An idle unexcersized body will fall prey to sexual desire," So Im going to try something new, every time i feel like masturbation, ill try excersizing? Maybe wish me luck boys

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