:$ hi i am 17 years old. the story goes like this: i havent touched my self for 16 days, a friend of mine told me that its impossible to stop masturbating. Is that true? i have been doing it since i was 10. Now we made a bet that i can quit it for at least 2 months..
Have you ever tried to stop masturbating? And how long did you managed to?
Have you ever tried to stop masturbating? And how long did you managed to?
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It is very possible to stop masturbating and it is nothing to be embarrassed about. Some people might find it pointless etc. But if you choose to stop masturbating for whatever reason whether it be for a bet like you said or something else. It is very possible. Two months is a long time in relation to masturbation so I would recommend reducing the amount of Milk, cheese, yoghurt and other dairy products in your diet. But don't stop having them just reduce them. This will reduce your sperm count and you wont get the same urge. I would then recommend speaking to a family member that is close to you and that you know you can trust, or a friend which you also know you can trust. Tell them whats going on, you don't have to make it sound embarrassing just laugh it off and ask how long they have gone before. You are 17 which is a very tricky age in relation with masturbating for obvious reasons. An idea might be to not stop but to just reduce the amount of times in a week to say two. And see how you do. Then push yourself to one. Then maybe one every two weeks and so on. Eventually you will stop because your body will lose the routine of you masturbating. And this will help. Reduce the amount of Pornographic Material you use, because this could start the problem all again. Because it becomes an addiction. If you have a girlfriend then Sexual Intercourse is one anwser. This isn't masturbating so it is one way out. But remember to take it step by step and not affect your life with it. If the urge becomes that desperate then fight it but don't go overboard and masturbate if it gets too bad. You can always try again. ;-)
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Well, it seems easy when you write it but to quit masturbating it requires a lot of time and good will. It would be an amazing thing that you can stop doing this over a night, but you can't. It is hard.
But, it is possible!
Look, you are very young, you are a teenager and you still like to experiment with everything. I bet that you are going to the local store and usually there you buy some porno magazines, right?
Well, the first thing that you should do is to avoid that. Avoid everything that contains something that has to do with porn.
Also, find for yourself some other way to control your desires. Play football with your friends, go to the cinema, etc.
Neither method can work 100% for you, but you have to keep on trying.
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u can stop masturbationg whenever u want, i started t at 8 and decided to quit at 17, haven't masturbated for about 3-4 months.
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i have had this problem twice and it's nobody's fault but my own.
i started masturbating a long time ago when i was 9 or 10 and i didn't do it so often, but then it got worse, it was almost like an addiction when i decided to stop... i was about 12 when i stopped. But then it came back (my own fault) and sometimes i couldn't even help myself. but then i tried really hard and then i hadn't done it for about 2 months, then i did it again. what i was thinking was that it was something stupid really, i didn't want to do it, and didn't even like it... but still it kept happening. so i stopped looking at porn and i also tried doing alot of other things to take my mind of of it. That helped alot. Doing other things will take your mind off of it. also something you could do is put a picture of Mary, Jesus or a crucifix in your bathroom, or even wear a cross... if you see that, you will remember not to masturbate.
I still remember that it was always my own fault, people told me that it's impossible to stop, but if you think you can, then you can.
also another thing, when your in the shower, don't think about anything at all, just shower and get out (that helped me to).
i started masturbating a long time ago when i was 9 or 10 and i didn't do it so often, but then it got worse, it was almost like an addiction when i decided to stop... i was about 12 when i stopped. But then it came back (my own fault) and sometimes i couldn't even help myself. but then i tried really hard and then i hadn't done it for about 2 months, then i did it again. what i was thinking was that it was something stupid really, i didn't want to do it, and didn't even like it... but still it kept happening. so i stopped looking at porn and i also tried doing alot of other things to take my mind of of it. That helped alot. Doing other things will take your mind off of it. also something you could do is put a picture of Mary, Jesus or a crucifix in your bathroom, or even wear a cross... if you see that, you will remember not to masturbate.
I still remember that it was always my own fault, people told me that it's impossible to stop, but if you think you can, then you can.
also another thing, when your in the shower, don't think about anything at all, just shower and get out (that helped me to).
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The first response above is the best. o.O
All men masterbate. 60% may admit it, the other 40% are liers. :O
You can stop for a period of time, but your body will want to expell the unused sperm in "wet dreams" or nocternal emissions. This is not the same as masterbation, and you should have no shame in this. :$
But, when it comes to choosing the lessor of two situations, you may find masterbation on your terms to be less messy to clean up. On the other hand, if your value system gives you problems about masterbating without a partner, or pleasuring yourself, you may choose to wait. Both are alright.
But if this troubles you, seek out a trusted advisor... like a counselor, religious leader, or clinic counselor. A doctor is also a good choice.
Good luck.
All men masterbate. 60% may admit it, the other 40% are liers. :O
You can stop for a period of time, but your body will want to expell the unused sperm in "wet dreams" or nocternal emissions. This is not the same as masterbation, and you should have no shame in this. :$
But, when it comes to choosing the lessor of two situations, you may find masterbation on your terms to be less messy to clean up. On the other hand, if your value system gives you problems about masterbating without a partner, or pleasuring yourself, you may choose to wait. Both are alright.
But if this troubles you, seek out a trusted advisor... like a counselor, religious leader, or clinic counselor. A doctor is also a good choice.
Good luck.
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:( i want to stop man im 13 i need help u got anyway to stop it i might smoke weed cause i wanna stop and i started when i was 12 you got any ideas?
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Hello Friends ,
I read all your messages and suggestion what u have done and what u r doing my dear friends i also masturbate like you and i stop masturbating now im 22 years old i start doing masturbation in age of 16. Now im 22 but i didnt completely stop because its healthy to do masturbation 2 or 3times in a month no problem nothing harm in it. I mostly like to see hidden cam sex and all latest clips but not whole the month in any weekend i first see then masturbate but take it on ur mind easy and feel relax after doing it dont think that u have done any mistake or this is harm for your body nothing like that and 2ndly people who took islam in these things really making fool to us listen i thought that to f**k a girl or to spent whole night with a girl or to rap a girl is to better to do masturbation and remove ur stress that is good for you my suggestion to you is this concentrate on night dreams if u stop masturbating completely or minimum do 3 times in a month its very essential to do because already you are doing masturbation and sudden u stop , masturbation in otherwords a very good exercise but not to do all the time playing like a toy. Do it when u really need to do or enjoy night dreams i love them i mostly after 3 days a nightdream i really enjoy it if u stop just 20 days u can have a nightdream then u see in regular u also selfly avoid to masturbation .
Thanks
Ali
I read all your messages and suggestion what u have done and what u r doing my dear friends i also masturbate like you and i stop masturbating now im 22 years old i start doing masturbation in age of 16. Now im 22 but i didnt completely stop because its healthy to do masturbation 2 or 3times in a month no problem nothing harm in it. I mostly like to see hidden cam sex and all latest clips but not whole the month in any weekend i first see then masturbate but take it on ur mind easy and feel relax after doing it dont think that u have done any mistake or this is harm for your body nothing like that and 2ndly people who took islam in these things really making fool to us listen i thought that to f**k a girl or to spent whole night with a girl or to rap a girl is to better to do masturbation and remove ur stress that is good for you my suggestion to you is this concentrate on night dreams if u stop masturbating completely or minimum do 3 times in a month its very essential to do because already you are doing masturbation and sudden u stop , masturbation in otherwords a very good exercise but not to do all the time playing like a toy. Do it when u really need to do or enjoy night dreams i love them i mostly after 3 days a nightdream i really enjoy it if u stop just 20 days u can have a nightdream then u see in regular u also selfly avoid to masturbation .
Thanks
Ali
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Most people masturbate at one time or another, so don't feel bad. But after you go through puberty, the frequency of masturbating should slow down. A 13yr old boy is probably the most turned on of people, and thus will masturbate more. It's natural for teens to experiment and figure out how their new body works. So, for all you 11-17yr old kids out there, up to once a day is pretty normal. But don't let it interfere with your life, and don't ever do it because you feel you have to!
I'm 20 now, and since about 16 I have masturbated much less. Currently, about 1-2 times a week. But now I face a moral question. As I grew out of the puberty stage, and started figuring out what I believe is right and wrong, my thoughts about masturbating have also changed.
I believe that it is not right to have sex with any girl you want simply because you're turned on. There is no love, or relational connection in that scenario. So, if I hold true to that value in life, shouldn't I also hold that value in my mind? This means I should not fantasize about random women while I wank it. So should I stop altogether? The moral part of me says yes. But the part of me that wants that good feeling, and wants to satisfy that habit i've been practicing since I was 12 says no.
I need, we all need, to make that choice. Until that decision is made, you will continue to do what you always have done, with only brief periods of abstinence. I guess if I am going to continue masturbating, it will not include a fantasy with a girl I am not in a relationship with. But I would like to say "I don't masturbate", maybe I can someday soon, when I finally make my decision.
I'm 20 now, and since about 16 I have masturbated much less. Currently, about 1-2 times a week. But now I face a moral question. As I grew out of the puberty stage, and started figuring out what I believe is right and wrong, my thoughts about masturbating have also changed.
I believe that it is not right to have sex with any girl you want simply because you're turned on. There is no love, or relational connection in that scenario. So, if I hold true to that value in life, shouldn't I also hold that value in my mind? This means I should not fantasize about random women while I wank it. So should I stop altogether? The moral part of me says yes. But the part of me that wants that good feeling, and wants to satisfy that habit i've been practicing since I was 12 says no.
I need, we all need, to make that choice. Until that decision is made, you will continue to do what you always have done, with only brief periods of abstinence. I guess if I am going to continue masturbating, it will not include a fantasy with a girl I am not in a relationship with. But I would like to say "I don't masturbate", maybe I can someday soon, when I finally make my decision.
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yea thats right....we shouldnt do it becauz wwe feel like we must do it....
im 17 boy and i use to do it...
i think what people should to is try to cntrole it not stopping it....cauz ull do it somedays and think that u fail.....
if u dont have a gf/bf i think u can do it sometimes but just controle urself.....
im 17 boy and i use to do it...
i think what people should to is try to cntrole it not stopping it....cauz ull do it somedays and think that u fail.....
if u dont have a gf/bf i think u can do it sometimes but just controle urself.....
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what the heck it is.. .!! ... we lose a lot of our vitamins and minerals and it really effects your brain activity .. your weight is lot nerves starts appearing on hand... hair gets thin.. just because of masturbating more than 2-3 time a week....
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i have been masturbating since i was eight and i dont see the point in stoping i am now 14 and wtf im going to keep doing it. if it were me i would just loose the bet :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D :-D
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Hey, well I would like to encourage you.
I have probably six months or more without masturbating and don't plan on doing it ever again. I used to try and stop but couldn't. Until I got saved like 6 months ago and understood that that was separating me from God. It was hard at the begining but now I hardly think about anything sexually at all thanks to God. :-) So, yes it is possible.
I have probably six months or more without masturbating and don't plan on doing it ever again. I used to try and stop but couldn't. Until I got saved like 6 months ago and understood that that was separating me from God. It was hard at the begining but now I hardly think about anything sexually at all thanks to God. :-) So, yes it is possible.
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The last two responses are completely false. The urge to masterbate does not slow down as you get older. Your wisdom on how to defeat the addiction can change. (which by the way, masturbation can become an addiction).
Some don't struggle with masturbation as much as others based on their brain chemical balance. And no, not everyone masturbates. There are ways in which you can stop.
If you've done everything that you know how to do to stop this addiction and you are still doing it, then the best thing to do is to get rid of your computer for some time. use a computer at a public library if you need computer use...
That is my best suggestion... Realize that if you can't stop this porn addiction, you have an extreme personality and you must take extreme measures to defeat this addiction and perversion.
Some don't struggle with masturbation as much as others based on their brain chemical balance. And no, not everyone masturbates. There are ways in which you can stop.
If you've done everything that you know how to do to stop this addiction and you are still doing it, then the best thing to do is to get rid of your computer for some time. use a computer at a public library if you need computer use...
That is my best suggestion... Realize that if you can't stop this porn addiction, you have an extreme personality and you must take extreme measures to defeat this addiction and perversion.
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