hi all, i am currently inlove with this guy but am not sure whether am i still virgin or not. in a 5 years relationship we never had sex. but every time he ask for it but i always say no. and one day i got me and force me to have sex with him but i said no. so he gave me three option just to choose one of them. fist he will rape me and the second, is to allow him to f**k me on my as****e and the last one to allow his figure to put inside my virgin for him to check my virgin. so please help me with this. i allow him on the second and third choice. do you think i am still virgin?? but never put his penis inside me.. so what you fink?? am i??? please help!!!!!:-)
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If this is a serious post then you need to get out of this relationship now. Run don't walk. He is abusive and that will not improve. He has no right to force you to have any sort of sex. No means No, means No. He cannot offer you an ultimatum like he did. Make sure you are safe to leave. Tell someone you trust fully about how he treats you and get out. Being treated with respect is much more important than being virgin. he is not treating you with the respect you deserve so get out now. You might think he loves you and that you love him. But love shouldn't treat you that way. He is dangerous.
On the issue of virginity, you are a virgin if you have not had penetrative sex with a penis. Hymens have nothing to do with virginity. And in my definition you lose your virginity with anal sex, but others might not see it that way.
All the best and stay safe
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