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Ok sweetie here is some information for you .Since you are a virgin, penetrative sex ruptures the hymen. Hymen is a thin stretched membrane that covers opening of vagina, but with little holes to let menstrual blood out during periods.
When hymen ruptures, some girls bleed much, while some get few drops of blood. So, there is no such thing as a standard woman. Tip: If you are on medication that thins out blood, you may bleed more than usual - well, that affects your periods as well.
Spend time during foreplay, allow penetrative sex ONLY when you have a wet feeling down there - which means your vagina is well lubricated. Since you are a virgin, you can always ask your boyfriend to be gentle with you. Once you or your boyfriend notices blood, he can wipe it off [keep cotton wad ready]. Once hyen ruptures you may feel pain - this pain is again subjective and no standard measure as such.
It is always advised not to overdo sex during first time for a simple reason that a ruptured hymen may bleed more during repeated sex - not to mention sore feeling down there. However if you bleed very little, you can enjoy the rest.
Besides all of this, you need to educate yourself on birth control. Having sex is another, and preventing a pregnancy is another issue. A girl is fertile [Assuming a girl has a 30 day cycle] during 10-20th day of her cycle [counted from the first day period starts]. So, sex during your fertile days ensures pregnancy. You will want to use protection such as a condom, or a birth control pill. There are several options, and you can always google search or approach nearest pharmacist for advice on off the counter alternatives.
Just relax, sex is to be enjoyed and not feared. Having educated yourself, feel confident on what you decide for yourself. Good luck
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