i am missing my labia minora. they just aren't there

Vaginas are just like penises in the way that there arent 2 alike. As far as missing your clit i do not know what to say about that, and as far and stimulation by fingering, just try different things and remember everyone is made differently

First off, I am a guy who has dated for 18 years and have been with probably over 60 women. I tell you from experience that women like you are very special in that MANY men LOVE the look that you have! Lots of women go to surgeons to get the "Barbie", but you have it naturally! As far as your hood, if it gets too bothersome, this is a very common minor surgery to slightly reduce its size, but do not have any surgery unless nessery. Oral sex with women whith small minora is actually better than other women. This is MY opinion and others might feel differently. Like Will Hank said, everyone is different and belive me, yours is very desireable