I can't seem to fit anything up my vagina!!! Not a tampon for hygiene, a finger for pleasure, NOTHING!! I've looked at it in the mirror and its not that big to begin with. I just tried to insert my finger without looking in the mirror but i couldn't push it in (not gutsy enough). However, it was the closest I've ever come to putting something up there. anyway. HELP!!! do you think it could be my hymens to large or what?