So I am wondering if something is wrong with my hymen, sorry if this sounds gross! Okay, so I can easily see my hymen and the hole is about the diameter of a finger/thumb. However, I've never been able to put in a tampon or finger or anything, due to discomfort. Also, if I try to have intercourse with my boyfriend everything is a-okay until a little more penetration is involved, then the pain is excruciating!! It feels like an abnormally large amount of pressure is being applied and it hurts too much to continue. I noticed the hole seemed larger/a little teared-looking, but not that much different. I also noticed that behind the hole it looks as though there is a wall? Is this normal? What can I do to minimize the pain for intercourse and the discomfort for tampons? (Because it is almost unbearable.) Thank you!!