Im 14, Im male, I live iN USA, and I have a boyfriend.
He is much larger and 2 years older then me, and on my birthday, he gave me 2 presents: one was a kiss <3and told me to open the other in my room. I did later on and it was a couple of condoms. I found him and told him to come upstairs and showed him what he had given me and he asked me if I wanted to have sex. I loved him and trusted him with my life. I had sex with him and we cuddled and it was awesome, we have had sex 2 times: once then, and once 2 days ago (2 months later). The second time I told him no :-( and he is 34 pounds heavyer (all muscle) and 5 inches taller. He pulled my arm up behind my back and I was stuck, he then laid my chest on his bed and he pulled down my pants and he raped me :'(. he told me sorry and I said I wont talk to him until im done thinking about our relationship. It has been 2 days and I have over 500 texts from him saying how sorry he is and how he will never do it again.
I would love some advice. I dont hate him, I still love him. <3
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It's sort of hard to know what to say here because you've identified that he raped you. People will always apologise when they do something bad but it still happened and it doesn't mean it won't happen again.
Why would you want to stay with him?
If you are only 14, you've got much more chances to fall in love again.
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he and I are LITERALLY the only gay/bi guys at my school. All the rest of LGBT is girls. I do love him and I hope that he really will not do it again.
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There is a whole world outside of school.
Don't be with this guy just because he's the only gay one
He may use that to his advantage.
I won't say he will do it again but you know its a possibility. I think you should split up, enjoy being a single gay boy and look for other people who share your interests outside of school.
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i say you should quit being gay.. i'm 14 too and i'm still thinking of asking a girl out and you're having sex... with a guy... look, forge its legal, in ur country,. if u are a christain then u shud be ashamed of yourself.. think of it this way... if your dad was gay, he would not have been your dad.. so why not let peer pressure kick in here, quit being gay, avoid the pain, have a biological child and be heterosexual.. not HOMO not BI but HETERO...
gay is never the way...
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If the world were not full of differences then there would be no problems, yes, that is good.
What you do you not see is that the problem is that THERE WOULD BE NO PROBLEMS.
Life without imperfections is a life of no difference.
without LGBT the world would be overpopulated.
Imagine all those words that you said to me, change "gay" to "straight" and see what it feels like to have that said to you
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I say you should quit being STRAIGHT...Im 14 too and im still thinking about asking a GUY out and your having sex... with a GIRL... look, forge its legal, in ur country,. if you were Christian then u shud be ashamed of yourself.. think of it this way... If your dad was gay (leaving that part cause if you change it doesent make sense), he would not be your dad.. so why not let peer pressure kick in here, quit being STRAIGHT, avoid the pain, have a biological child and be HOMOSEXUAL.. not STRAIGHT but HOMO... STRAIGHT is never the way... you'll burn in hell even if u bliv u r a good person.. quit STRAIGHT
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i know that was a little mean...
but its true... spend a little time thinking of how ur mum would feel knowing that there will be no grandchild of hers from you..
I'm advising you bcos its the right thing to do.. i dont want to know that i could have helped someone but did not..
so i'm sorry if i was making you feel bad but its true.. ur pres. obama just legalized gay so he could win votes... think on this and think on it strongly..
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People shouldn't bring their religious or otherwise strong belief into a topic asking for advic
There is nothing wrong with being gay and you should stay true to your feelings.
But you already know how I feel abut the relationship you described so I won't write anymore on that :)
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