I dont know whether to wear a bra!

That's really something only you can answer. You have to decide if you want to or not. If you have no or very small breasts you certainly don't need one but if you feel out of place with the other girls, go ahead. But will they give you a hard time about wearing one when you have nothing to put in it? "Friends" can be quite cruel.

If you like the freedom of not wearing one then go that way. You have to please yourself, not them.

 

i had EXACTLY the same probs!!! except i did have small breasts at the time. ask your family or close person or an understanding friend perhaps, i know it sounds easier than it is but when i asked my mum for my first bra she was more than happy, even a bit releived maybe? anyway what i suggest is getting a training bra or coz no one will know get a very small cup sized bra and wear that!!! and if your not comfrtable with asking ur mum , shes probably been through problems at ur age too and willing to give advice! xxxx hope this helps!!! x

I love the concept of a "training bra".

What exactly are you training them to do?:-)

I know there is a lot of talk about breast size and the boys go nutsy over large breasts. Or they say they do because that's what they think they're supposed to say. They don't want the other guys to think there's something wrong with them if they express a liking for smaller ones. However I can assure you there ARE guys who LOVE small (tiny) breasts. Maybe it's because they don't need a bra to hide under and they look sooo nice inside your shirt or whatever, when they aren't hiding inside a bra.

So don't be ashamed of what you have, or don't have, there is someone who likes it that way. 

If you don't feel ready for a regular one, you could try a sports bra.