I am a very smart, young, good-looking, high profile business professional. I make a lot of money. I work great hours. I have a nice home. I drive the best cars. I eat at the finest restaurants. I am VERY socially developed. I have a ton of friends. I am someone that everyone wants to know. I have no drug, tobacco, or alcohol addictions.
I am married to my dream girl. We have no kids. We are both in love to its greatest extent and on every level. I have never seen or heard of a love as great as ours. We connect as lovers, best friends, companions, partners, you name it. We are soul mates. My wife is the most attractive woman I have ever seen. She only gets more beautiful and attractive by the day. She is a bombshell and is asked on a constant basis if she is a professional model or celebrity. I am truly blessed to have her. She is THE perfect wife.
I don’t mean to come across as bragging by any means. I am only going into such detail to put the kind of lifestyle I live in retrospect because I feel it could be relevant to the issue at hand. (Pun intended :p)
My life has one flaw that needs to be addressed. Because I feel it could do harm to my marriage. That flaw is my constant need for sexual satisfaction.
I have always been a sexually motivated person. I remember my first sexual experiences from as far back as when I was 5 years old. I remember being the one showing my buddies my dirty magazines as a 10 year old. I lost my virginity at 13. I was looking through my friend’s parent’s drawers for dirty pictures or pornography at age 14. I was looking in my female schoolmates windows for hopes of a glimpse of them getting undressed at age 15. I masturbated in class at school at age 16 if the opportunity arose. I discovered internet porn at age 18. I began to use it regularly (twice a week) at age 20. I met my wife at age 21. (Got married at 24) She was a 18 year old stripper and secretly a porn actress. She did not like my regular use of porn. I tried to share it with her be she wanted nothing to do with it. She told her mother about my porn usage. Her mother asked me if I was addicted to porn. I said no. Ever since that conversation, my porn usage has gotten many times more frequent. These days I masturbate an average of 5 times but up to as many as 10 times a day.
I have mastered the art of concealing my masturbating habits. I have an office at work. All I have to do is close the door and log on to whatever porn site I happen to want at that moment. With the internet, everything you want is accessible. If it is not, I will find a way. I am like that. A go getter. I have seen the majority of the female friends I know naked either through hacking online photo accounts or by finding access to their private collections. I enjoy only amateur photos. Not the dressed up porn. Just candid girls having fun showing breasts on the beach or at a bachelorette party. That kind of stuff.
Actually most of the time I don’t even bother to close my door at work when I jack off. I can do it through my pants. Sitting behind my desk, no one will ever know. I can do it completely with my thumb and index finger. I can keep a relaxed and expressionless appearance as I do it. I will just release straight into my underwear. Since I wear black slacks every day, they don’t show the stain. I have mastered this to an incredible extent. I can get my self off pretty much anywhere at anytime. That’s a lot of power for a man. For a quick release, I can get myself off to completion in under a minute if I’m in a time crunch. What’s crazy is, even though I can get off so quickly, I am a stallion in bed. I can last for an hour + if I feel like it. I have complete control over my ejaculations. I can be a minute man or I can go for hours. I have always been praised by women for my penis size as well. I was measured at over 8 inches once by a female companion.
On the exterior, when people see me and my wife, they see a good looking confident and happy couple. You would never guess in a million years that she used to be in the sex trade or that I am THE master-bater if you know what I mean.
My wife knows I jack off a lot. She does not like it. I have tried to be honest with her about it, but I seem to keep the peace better when I just try to avoid the conversation. It has been primarily the source of problems in my marriage to her.
When I am with her, I don’t feel the need to masturbate as often. The problem is, in my line of work, I have access and ability to pleasure myself at will. Which is A LOT! By the end of the day, my wife wants me to come home hungry for her. But sometimes I am sexually exhausted when I get home. We still do have sex many times a week. But she can tell the different when I masturbate.
I have tried stopping. I have installed many of the available various anti-porn software on my computer to deter me, but because of my computer skills, I easily bypass anything that gets in the way. At one point, I didn’t masturbate for over a month. I do have all the will power I need, that’s not the issue. I am extremely smart and headstrong. But, honestly, I start to feel like I am missing something in this life when I don’t masturbate. I feel that since I am married, I won’t get to witness all the fun sexual stuff that a single man in his mid twenties would get to experience like crazy parties, strip clubs, multiple partners, ect.. So for me, the porn is a way for me to experience that without compromising my marriage. But my wife does get upset and I do not feel exactly great after a day’s worth of whacking it, so something must be wrong with it.
I don’t want to hurt my wife or my marriage. I have tried seeing psychiatrists. I just can’t seem to find one that can get to the heart of this one. They all scream “sex addict” and “mommy and daddy problems” and I’m sure there is some validity there, but ok… I’m not getting on medication and making some dumbass money while I develop cancer from all the BS they put in that stuff. But I do, however, want to be a good husband to my wife without fear of missing out on the beauty that is God’s most perfect creation. The female body. Once again, my wife should be all the womanly beauty I need. She does fulfill me to a great extent. But, there is no human on this earth that can satisfy my constant urges.
;-)
I am married to my dream girl. We have no kids. We are both in love to its greatest extent and on every level. I have never seen or heard of a love as great as ours. We connect as lovers, best friends, companions, partners, you name it. We are soul mates. My wife is the most attractive woman I have ever seen. She only gets more beautiful and attractive by the day. She is a bombshell and is asked on a constant basis if she is a professional model or celebrity. I am truly blessed to have her. She is THE perfect wife.
I don’t mean to come across as bragging by any means. I am only going into such detail to put the kind of lifestyle I live in retrospect because I feel it could be relevant to the issue at hand. (Pun intended :p)
My life has one flaw that needs to be addressed. Because I feel it could do harm to my marriage. That flaw is my constant need for sexual satisfaction.
I have always been a sexually motivated person. I remember my first sexual experiences from as far back as when I was 5 years old. I remember being the one showing my buddies my dirty magazines as a 10 year old. I lost my virginity at 13. I was looking through my friend’s parent’s drawers for dirty pictures or pornography at age 14. I was looking in my female schoolmates windows for hopes of a glimpse of them getting undressed at age 15. I masturbated in class at school at age 16 if the opportunity arose. I discovered internet porn at age 18. I began to use it regularly (twice a week) at age 20. I met my wife at age 21. (Got married at 24) She was a 18 year old stripper and secretly a porn actress. She did not like my regular use of porn. I tried to share it with her be she wanted nothing to do with it. She told her mother about my porn usage. Her mother asked me if I was addicted to porn. I said no. Ever since that conversation, my porn usage has gotten many times more frequent. These days I masturbate an average of 5 times but up to as many as 10 times a day.
I have mastered the art of concealing my masturbating habits. I have an office at work. All I have to do is close the door and log on to whatever porn site I happen to want at that moment. With the internet, everything you want is accessible. If it is not, I will find a way. I am like that. A go getter. I have seen the majority of the female friends I know naked either through hacking online photo accounts or by finding access to their private collections. I enjoy only amateur photos. Not the dressed up porn. Just candid girls having fun showing breasts on the beach or at a bachelorette party. That kind of stuff.
Actually most of the time I don’t even bother to close my door at work when I jack off. I can do it through my pants. Sitting behind my desk, no one will ever know. I can do it completely with my thumb and index finger. I can keep a relaxed and expressionless appearance as I do it. I will just release straight into my underwear. Since I wear black slacks every day, they don’t show the stain. I have mastered this to an incredible extent. I can get my self off pretty much anywhere at anytime. That’s a lot of power for a man. For a quick release, I can get myself off to completion in under a minute if I’m in a time crunch. What’s crazy is, even though I can get off so quickly, I am a stallion in bed. I can last for an hour + if I feel like it. I have complete control over my ejaculations. I can be a minute man or I can go for hours. I have always been praised by women for my penis size as well. I was measured at over 8 inches once by a female companion.
On the exterior, when people see me and my wife, they see a good looking confident and happy couple. You would never guess in a million years that she used to be in the sex trade or that I am THE master-bater if you know what I mean.
My wife knows I jack off a lot. She does not like it. I have tried to be honest with her about it, but I seem to keep the peace better when I just try to avoid the conversation. It has been primarily the source of problems in my marriage to her.
When I am with her, I don’t feel the need to masturbate as often. The problem is, in my line of work, I have access and ability to pleasure myself at will. Which is A LOT! By the end of the day, my wife wants me to come home hungry for her. But sometimes I am sexually exhausted when I get home. We still do have sex many times a week. But she can tell the different when I masturbate.
I have tried stopping. I have installed many of the available various anti-porn software on my computer to deter me, but because of my computer skills, I easily bypass anything that gets in the way. At one point, I didn’t masturbate for over a month. I do have all the will power I need, that’s not the issue. I am extremely smart and headstrong. But, honestly, I start to feel like I am missing something in this life when I don’t masturbate. I feel that since I am married, I won’t get to witness all the fun sexual stuff that a single man in his mid twenties would get to experience like crazy parties, strip clubs, multiple partners, ect.. So for me, the porn is a way for me to experience that without compromising my marriage. But my wife does get upset and I do not feel exactly great after a day’s worth of whacking it, so something must be wrong with it.
I don’t want to hurt my wife or my marriage. I have tried seeing psychiatrists. I just can’t seem to find one that can get to the heart of this one. They all scream “sex addict” and “mommy and daddy problems” and I’m sure there is some validity there, but ok… I’m not getting on medication and making some dumbass money while I develop cancer from all the BS they put in that stuff. But I do, however, want to be a good husband to my wife without fear of missing out on the beauty that is God’s most perfect creation. The female body. Once again, my wife should be all the womanly beauty I need. She does fulfill me to a great extent. But, there is no human on this earth that can satisfy my constant urges.
;-)
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well i masturbate, but i love sex. i have bean with my man 4 years and we have sex every day. we seperated for a month and i went nuts. and i masterbated every day...its natural.some peaple can hav sex onec and be good, and some people need it regularly. its called being a nimpho...ins ok normal and veary,veary fun!!! ;-) 8)
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Well it is true that the development of a persons sexual habits are greatly influenced by their parents however that is not the case for everything. I am aware of an easement that people develop once they have them, if when you don't masturbate you have a heavy feeling of emptiness and things you have/do never seem fulfilling or good enough to your standards then it's likely to be related to that. This is something I've noticed mainly in women or guys with adhd. I hope this info helps.
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Well at work i would not do that because they can scan computers and check wrether or not you have been doing what you are suppoes to be doing.
I think i can help you with your problem do u live in the charleston area?
I think i can help you with your problem do u live in the charleston area?
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You have a wonderful, romantic relationship with yourself; if your wife doesn't mind sharing you...well, go for it!
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I masturbate often an it's fine if you do it a lot because it's absolutely fine for you health just when you want to masturbate find somewhere private and masturbate
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Hi ! The best way to get off this habit is to have an intensive cognitive behavioural therapy treatment. This doesnt involve medications or anything boring. What it does it teaches you and reinforces to you that what you are doing is wrong and gives you practice to change your habit. People successfully used this to get rid of phobias, anxiety, obsessive compulsive behaviour and many bad habits. So I am confident if you find a good therapist and you engage with him you can get rid of this habit or at least decrease it. I can confirm to you that you fulfil the all the criteria of being addicted to masturbation. You do it far more than most people. You cant control it. You feel guilty about it. It had negative effects to your life.
One other way of getting rid of this habit, take a break from your work. travel with your wife to a different part of the world where people are more conservative than the west and the internet speed is poor so you cant log in to porn sites and have a goal that during that journey you will only have sex with your wife and never masturbate. You will busy going out and exploring and it would be a lot easier not to masturbate than sitting all day at your office. Good luck !
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This guy is way too full of BS to be on the level and what an egotistical twat he is. He most likely IS a serial wanker but the rest of it is so Walter Mitty material.
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wow wacking and beating up the jerky meat on a daily basis is why where all here: otherwise their-ed be no fun in insulting the original writer: but of course the wacky tacky penis meat slapper need more than a beautiful women: He needs a hot shemale with 10 inches that can teach him the ropes: ............................ thats the damm truth rusty
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me and hubby of 7 years are both serial masturbators who try to have sex atleast twice a day (am wake up and pm bedtime). often throughout the day one or both of us will masturbate separately or together, usually while the other is away or out of the house. we frequently jack and jill on the couch while watching porno vids and often do each other when we aren't quite into having sex or are in between sex sessions. when he is at work and rubs one out at his desk he tells me about it and has even sent me pics or video of the jerk session and i have done the same.
i think from an early age we have both been incredibly turned on people and in spite of making love 2-3 times a day or more we still tend to masturbate atleast once. quite often laying in bed beside each other after an intense episode of sex. occassionally we will pleasure one another orally while the other manually gets themself off, other times the other will play the role of room service and wipe up the mess between the other's legs after a self fulfilled orgasm.
everybody masturbates and some people do it 5 or more times a day. the best thing to do is masturbate together while sitting across from one another with legs parted open and time your orgasms so they are synchronized together.
back in highschool i couldn't wait to rush home get nude and go to town on myself. now that i am a working professional i do the same thing and even masturbate at work on the days that seem to drag on and on, i even have a special vibe that is small enough to be discrete on the job. i don't see myself as a lady addicted to masturbating but rather a woman who is always turned on. as far as hubby goes he can masturbate all he wants because i am just happy he can get stiff many times a day even after ejaculating multiple times from either sex or wanking himself off. he is a turned on maniac just like me.
my husband masturbates so much but it doesn't bother me because he does keep my kitty fed. after i get laid i frequently rub one out anyways. what better way to compliment an orgasm than to give yourself a follow up orgasm to cap it off.
if you are turned on and without a sex partner by all means lock yourself in a room and tug out a dozen times a day if you wish. if you are turned on in the presense of your significant other and for some reason or another don't have sex on deck, masturbate in their presense and show that you are desperately needing release asap.
i have masturbated at work, while driving, watching tv, bath/shower, on a beach, in the park, in a theater, on a mountain, in a public bathroom, in a taxi, n a tent, in a jacuzzi, in a pool, in a changeroom, and even on a bike. not sure if i can be considered a masturbation addict since i was born with two hands and something in between my legs that wasn't meant for getting dusty. it's our nature to be turned on and intercourse is not always practical. if you have the libido and aren't neglecting your significant other, then you might as well jerk away. i sure as hell will and with pride will let hubby watch me polish myself while watching him get off too.
masturbating is normal. if you can orgasm more than once a day then why not indulge? just do yourself and don't be ashamed, you are human and were born to cum, and so was i. sometimes we need to make ourselves cum, sometimes several times. work up a well deserved explosive orgasm and follow it up with another. some people can't even get turned on so use it or lose it.
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Hi what i think is that you need to relax, you been sexual all youre life and it is something that you cant change, is part of you, and what makes you more sexual is that is kind of prohibited for you and that makes it more exciting, you dont have to stop, youre wife have to understand with who she is married, you donr have 20 anymore you are a big man now who makes their own decitions.
Accept the fact of who you are without putting any names, its just you and be happy about it.
You been having a lot of courage with been unfaithfull. 85% of men worldwide they are a released study proved it. So you really love her.
Talk to her if she doesnt understand you, probably she is not accepting totally who you are and maybe she is not the dream girl you think.
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