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I have problems performing for longer than 15 to 20 minutes. what can i do????

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what do you mean? cause thats a really broad question......like do you cum to fast or something?
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Well yeah. I do cum too fast. And it seems i dont please her very well.
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I just dont know what to do. I wanna be able to please her but with me cumming so quickly i just cant seem to.
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I would try using a condom to decrease sensitivity, that will most likely make you last longer. Also, from a female standpoint, 15 to 20 minutes seems like a decent amount of time to me--I could see getting sore if it was too much longer. Try varying sexual positions to get her to climax more quickly. Otherwise, anything that makes you less likely to climax too quickly, like masturbating an hour before sex to get the initial built-up feeling out beforehand. Then you might be able to last longer!
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Hi there, do you use a condom? If not, that would help you last longer. The other thing you can do is when you masturbate, what you should do is try to see how long you can last without climaxing. Masturbating can serve as practice for when you have sex. And it really does help! A lot of people I know do it, and it does help. Have you had trouble with ejaculating too soon still?
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I DO use condoms. It dont seem to make any difference.
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Okay, I am very glad to hear you're using condoms at least! Okay, so in that case, I recommend trying to masturbate for as long as you can. Is that something you'd be able to practice? I know it helped me out quite a bit.
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ii can do that for about an hour and a half....
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My boyfriend is exactly the same...
He says when he's on his own he can last so much longer and he can keep an erection for so much longer. Its probably just nerves.. try to hold it in as long as you can if your worried about it.. but i personally think that after 20 minutes i would be hurting your girlfriend... it hurts me after that long...
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Well, the last thing I'd recommend is for you to try changing up positions while you have sex. I know that if you switch it up that it makes it harder for you to have an orgasm so that helps. Have you tried that?
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