Is there any way to hold on longer before ejaculating?

Hi. I just want to tell you that you are definitely not alone with this problem because many man are suffering from the same thing. I wouldn’t go so far and call this a premature ejaculation problem although it really seams to be exactly that.
I believe that the right answer on your question is- your age. It is very common among boys your age but I believe that it will disappear in the near future. Masturbating could also be problem because many doctors claim that excessive masturbation can lead to premature ejaculation problems. I will also tell you one trick- during the sex, when you fell that you’ll reach the orgasm soon- squeeze the tip of your penis for a second and it will stop!

bro im 17 and had sex probaly around 70 times or so (1 person) and the the reason you ejaculated so fast was cause it was ur first time "gettin your penis wet" so to speak,just tellin you slow down next time dont stress it,and if you feel like your reachin the point slow down and breathe,then start again.but dont go past the point of no return or else she will leave unhappy.and sex is all about how your partner feels,make her happy and want it again.

You've just had your first sexual experience. You must have been excited and nervous like the rest of us, and it's really no wonder that it only lasted about 20 seconds. It's not so embarrassing if you don't make a big deal over it, because it's really normal. 

With time, you'll discover how to have sex for a long time. You'll be more relaxed with your gf, you will be more experienced, and you won't climax so soon. Really. Premature ejaculation can be down to medical issues but in your case, I assume it's just stress and excitement. Totally normal. 

Well masturbating and having sex is not the same thing. It is more stimulating when you are with partner. And considering that this was your first time, you are fine. In time you wont ejaculate that fest, and you will be able to have long and good sexual experience. Try to take is slow next time and watch it when your are about to finish.

Masturbation and sex are not the same--I agree fully with dark_red. I do have to point out that jimmey beaner's comments were mostly helpful but they were a little contradictory. Be sure that you're not stressing out, and don't worry about your performance. If you really do seem to be going too quickly, you may want to try different positions, which helps. And if you are using a condom, that's best because it can help reduce sensitivity. Were you using condoms before?

Well healthandfitnesguy is right. Try using different positions during sex and see wich one soots you the best. And also condoms. It is very important that you use protection. You have many advantages using condom, you can prevent unwanted pregnancy, protect both your partner and your self from STD's. Are you doing better now? Keep us posted. All the best.

When you are about to cum...just take it out (change positions, give oral,etc) then once you feel it subside go at it again/.

It could've been stress. Or anxiety. Both of these factors seriously fracture your 'performance'. Since it was your first experience, I wouldn't blame you. Lots of stress already in the air. The reason you never faced it while masturbating was because you felt no bad stress or anxiety over the situation, and you were calm.

I agree with you ThaMountain,
Stress is a powerful thing and it can influence in many ways. This can be one of them.
Do you maybe have any solution to this?

I would call it excitement and anticipation. It seems to be one of those cruel jokes :-S nature plays on us.
The little guy gets so excited :-P when he finds he's going to get into a REAL penis trap, he could just --- well, come! :-D
That warm, moist, thing, surrounding him and squeezing him, just feels soooo much better than having fingers wrapped around him.

I had the problem for many years, with my wife. We had a few ways of dealing with it.
One was to have me come first. That way when I was able to get an erection again I was able to enter her and last long enough so it was a meaningful connection for both of us.

Another way we found was when we had been out at the bar for a while I could last nearly forever inside her. Although drinking seems to make you want to do it, sex after drinking was never very satisfying for us and hardly worth the effort.

I feel the mans job is to pleasure his woman, not simply jack off inside her body. :-( If the guys I knew in school really acted in bed with their wives/girls the way they talked, that's about all they were looking for --- a moist, warm, place to stick it, and bang away til they came. I feel sorry for their wives/girls. At 69, I'm still married to my first wife :-D and most of them are not, so maybe they did do it like that.

No wonder Patsy Cline called it "bumping uglies". 8-|

My part involves a lot of foreplay by me, which almost always involves cunnilingus. I love cunnilingus and she doesn't mind it either, but I think I like it more. When I was young I got so turned on doing that, I would usually come without anything or anyone touching my penis. ---- Problem solved, that took care of my first ejaculation so when the little guy was able to stand up again, or if he was still standing, he would last a long time when he finally got into his warm, comfortable home.

Vaginal sex didn't do much for her, so I made sure she got her first and second climax at the tip of my tongue. Then when I was inside I could use my fingers on her clit for a third coming. This doesn't have to happen right away because the real joy of sex :-D is the connection you both feel while you are inside her. It's not just a race to the finish.

This worked well for us. We got to where we could almost always come together, o.O which was nice and we were both satisfied because this was her third climax. Women are funny like that. You may be ready to take a nap after you come, but she isn't. :O After she comes the first time, she's NOT interested in napping 8-| --- she's just getting warmed up. 8)

I Have been masturbating for 15 years and i had the same problem but i over came that when i chewed cinamon while having sex, and please use viagrayour penis wont sleep even if you cum three times

Thank you very much. This is of great help!