I have some turned on problems, and I try not to finger myself! What should I do?

Maybe it's not good by societal standards but by biological standards it's perfectly normal. At 14 you are supposed to be turned on so you are fighting a losing battle. Masturbating is a wonderful way to get the relief you need and it can't get you pregnant or give you any diseases.

im also 14 about to turn 15 in 2 months and i feel the same way. like all my friends(girls and boys) ask if i masturbate and i say no because they say its wierd when girls do it. So i have stopped watching porn and touching myself because i feel weird/wrong about it. also i stopped because of my weight, im a little chubby. is this bad ?

Why have you stopped doing what you like because "they" say it's weird? Chubby has nothing to do with it. Masturbation feels good no matter how much you weigh. I think it's bad that you stopped because of them.

Why are they asking? I bet it's because they are doing it themselves and are looking for someone else to talk with about it. When you answer "no" they say that to disguise the fact they are doing it. 

Maybe they really want to compare notes, discuss techniques, or even get together to do it. It's a lot of fun to share with a friend. At your age you're figuring out how things work and it's not gay to join with other girls to do it.

I'm sure the boys who ask would love to get together with you to do it. What I learned at your age was that just the touch of a girl's hand was so much better than my own or some other guy's hand. Even if she wasn't good at making me come, the touch of her hand was something special. I suspect you girls experience the same thing. My wife would never tell me if that's true. I suppose she feels that would be like admitting she allowed some other guy to touch her before we met.

Next time someone asks why not answer with "are you starting a club" and see what they say.