well i met this girl an we started dating. then she started coming over to my house but she brings her friend with her because she lives close to me an thats the only way she can see me. but now her friend keeps calling me an wanting to come over an hang out when my girlfriend is not around. even know she says she doesnt like me i still think that she does. what should i do?
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I don't know man, it sounds like you're playing with fire to me. Does the non-girlfriend want to keep these hang outs a secret from your girlfriend? Does your girlfriend know this other girl wants to hang out with you alone?
I would say if you and the non girlfriend girl are going to hang, maybe avoid bedroom hangouts, instead go to the mall or a cafe' or something more public.
I'm no pro, it's just my take on it.
I would say if you and the non girlfriend girl are going to hang, maybe avoid bedroom hangouts, instead go to the mall or a cafe' or something more public.
I'm no pro, it's just my take on it.
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Good advice lol... And it's not fire, fire will burn you, this is more like a social time bomb.
If you don't let your girlfriend's friend know you don't like her then things will only get worse. You'll keep hanging out and eventually the bomb will go off; however, if you do like her, and want to get in a relationship with her, you need to break up with your girlfriend first.
No matter what, you can't let this sit, and you must let one of them know how you feel. The results will either be:
One - You gently let your gf's friend down, and she may or may not think
of you as a jerk
Two - Girlfriend finds out, claims you to be cheating, your rep is downed
Three - Dump girlfriend, rep downed, but not as bad as cheating
Four (don't do this) - You somehow convince them that there is enough to
go around... yeah right...
I hope I helped you... and good luck, I have the same problem with my gf and her friend cept her friend acctually told me she likes me and my gf knows... I'm thinking it's a test but you never know so...
If you don't let your girlfriend's friend know you don't like her then things will only get worse. You'll keep hanging out and eventually the bomb will go off; however, if you do like her, and want to get in a relationship with her, you need to break up with your girlfriend first.
No matter what, you can't let this sit, and you must let one of them know how you feel. The results will either be:
One - You gently let your gf's friend down, and she may or may not think
of you as a jerk
Two - Girlfriend finds out, claims you to be cheating, your rep is downed
Three - Dump girlfriend, rep downed, but not as bad as cheating
Four (don't do this) - You somehow convince them that there is enough to
go around... yeah right...
I hope I helped you... and good luck, I have the same problem with my gf and her friend cept her friend acctually told me she likes me and my gf knows... I'm thinking it's a test but you never know so...
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Bag her man it's the only way. She knows that your a good man and wants what her friend has.
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