Hello all as far as i remember, i started masturbation in 2007 when i was 18 years old!!.....i used to read dirty stories online then i turned towards porn,
i fear that i never masturbated using my hands, i lay down against bed and move myself to and fro against bed.
my doubts are
1- sir when i get excited my penis erects there is no problem on time of erection...it erects fully and for long but i feel it is not hard while trying sex with my virgin girlfriend i noticed that when i tried to put into, penis actually bent so i could not make it done...... i felt that my penis was not as hard as required to penetrate into. does penetration depends upon hardness or style....how to increase hardness. and how to have first time sex with soft penis. also i had lots of long course phone sex with her during it i kept on rubbing penis for about 1/2 and 1 hour. that increases my period of ejaculation but actually penis had became soft earlier and i had kept on rubbing it till ejaculate.
2. Phone sex or masturbation i did very much and for long duration,,what harms i have made to myself....sometimes even i did on daily basis continue 6 months,,, on average i did it 4-5 times in a week since 5 years...how to make up those faults if i can??
3. about size of penis. i doubt that when i was of 17 i had long one than what i have today..does it happen....it is just 5 inches in eraction and 3 inch normal...does this normal or i need to perform better.
4. finally i have become addict to story reading and phone sex sir,,,please suggest me how to keep away myself from these. positively i have very control ejaculation that if i want to do it in 5 min i can and if i want to continue masturbation fr 1 hour that means i ejaculate after 1 hr but penis has become soft very earlier!!!!!!!! that too i can is it positive effect or negative?.
5. sir i want to end these all imaginative sexual fantasy and rather want to have real sex which i could not do because of hardness..please tell me how to have first time sex.and to overcome these fictitious sex..do i need to take viagra from now onwardss....i m very worried as i m going to marry my gf very soon..but 1st attempt left my bad impression over her plzz help sir....
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Masturbating a lot will lessen the sensation in your penis. It will also make it difficult to get a full erection soon after with your girlfriend, because the hormones that cause you to get aroused will be lessened.
What you need to do, is not masturbate so much. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't masturbate at all at this time. You have a girlfriend right now that is obviously interested in sexual relations so there is no reason. Learn control.
There is no such thing as addiction to masturbation, porn, or sex, no matter what you see on TV. Anything that only takes some self-control to get over is NOT an addiction and believing that it is just gives you an excuse to continue.
Masturbation is a natural thing, but when it begins to hurt you in some way you need to get control of yourself and give yourself some limitations. What you say you are "addicted" to is not the act of masturbation but the feeling of it and, trust me, sex feels MUCH better. If you hold out for sex for the first time, I believe it will help you somewhat with your control , knowing what you have to look forward to.
Try to limit your masturbation to once a day, once your girlfriend and yourself start having sex, but not on the days you will be seeing her until after you do. The waiting will lead to hormone build-up, which will not only allow you to have sex with your girlfriend but will make the sex better the longer you wait.
Also, for later when you and your girlfriend decide to have kids, frequent masturbation could make this task harder as your sperm count will be lower. I WOULD NOT try to use masturbation as a preventative measure against pregnancy, though. ;)
Hope this helps you a bit. You can do it with a bit of willpower. :)
What you need to do, is not masturbate so much. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't masturbate at all at this time. You have a girlfriend right now that is obviously interested in sexual relations so there is no reason. Learn control.
There is no such thing as addiction to masturbation, porn, or sex, no matter what you see on TV. Anything that only takes some self-control to get over is NOT an addiction and believing that it is just gives you an excuse to continue.
Masturbation is a natural thing, but when it begins to hurt you in some way you need to get control of yourself and give yourself some limitations. What you say you are "addicted" to is not the act of masturbation but the feeling of it and, trust me, sex feels MUCH better. If you hold out for sex for the first time, I believe it will help you somewhat with your control , knowing what you have to look forward to.
Try to limit your masturbation to once a day, once your girlfriend and yourself start having sex, but not on the days you will be seeing her until after you do. The waiting will lead to hormone build-up, which will not only allow you to have sex with your girlfriend but will make the sex better the longer you wait.
Also, for later when you and your girlfriend decide to have kids, frequent masturbation could make this task harder as your sperm count will be lower. I WOULD NOT try to use masturbation as a preventative measure against pregnancy, though. ;)
Hope this helps you a bit. You can do it with a bit of willpower. :)
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ok..thank you....but please suggest me how to penetrate first ttime................as it became softer i am not able to penetrate into virgin gf...........i am now going to stop masturbation at all.....but how to do sexx....suggest me
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masturbation is bad for men penis.it has side effects including premature ejaculation, loss of energy. very weak penis.
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The best way to stop mastrubation is dont live alone in home this is my own experience whenever I live alone in home my mind tell me to do mastrubate so better use yourtime talking with gf,frnds or parents
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