I want to have sex, nowhere to turn

First of all, although I know some of these questions were answered in a different post, but I would honestly wait! He is now considered and adult, and because your 14 and not at the legal age for consent, which is 16, its considered rape! For which he can go to jail for! I know you may think your in love, or that he loves you, but he doesn't! all he wants is one thing, and that's not good. As for Planned Parenthood, you do not need parental consent to go there, so you can go there all by yourself and get birth control and condoms without your parents knowing about it. So I wouldn't worry about that. But sex is a big deal, that can have serious consequences both physically, mentally and emotionally. So really think about it before you do anything. Is this something that you really want, or are you being pressured into it, or is it your hormones, or because you think everyone around you is doing it? Make sure your intentions are for the right reasons. But I would hold off if you can, and find someone more closer to your age, that really does love and respect you. That way, you won't be left with regrets. And in my opinion, think about why he wants to have sex with a 14 years old girl, rather than someone his own age. I think its a bit weird personally. 4 years apart may not seem like a big age difference, but in your teenage years it is! you are both at completely different stages in life. Hope this helps you somewhat. But be safe, and have a plan.