Idk if I'm cumming or if i am having an orgasm

It sounds like you are just cuming but I'm not sure. when have sex normally I cum and get really wet but my orgasms are special and its certain steps that has to be taken to get me there. i have also notice that i can have an orgasm without cuming. for me i know that i am having an orgasm because i can feel i tingle that starts in my feet and its starts to work its way up my legs it like i can feel it moving and the closer it gets to my vjj my muscles tighten and i'm on high alert. once it comes it only last a few seconds but when its over my clitoris becomes so sensitive that i don't want it to be touched and the muscles in my vijj tighten. -hope this helped

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