I'm 16 and I can't get an erection while having sex. I have a varicocele. Could that be the problem? I have been dating a girl now for quite sometime and I am in love with her and I want to express that. Whenever we kiss I do get an erection, but it seems whenever she touches my penis or we try to have sex I lose all hardness and I can't get it back. It is so embarrassing. I know a lot of people say it's due to stress and anxiety, and if so how can I fix that? As I stated earlier, I do have a varicocele on my left side of my scrotom and I'm wondering if that is my problem. This sounds crazy but should I take Viagra? I have no idea on what to do. Please give me a solution!
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hey there gffreels,
first off why at 16 are u having sex??(sorry not trying to lecture you) but theres a ton of risk invoulved just read all of the STD and pregnancy questions on this website. plus there are lots of other ways to express your love for eachother.
now as for your question. your vericocele has nothing to do with your erection failure. it is stress and anxiety about having sex. Its hard to explain how to get over it other than not to worry obout having sex, or if your penis size is to small or anything like that. just relax and go with it. also dont worry about what has happened when you tried to have sex in the past because that just sets your body up to fail. if you are worried about loosing your erection then you will.
Does this make sense?
dont take viagra.....
Hope this helps. let me know if you have any other questions or concerns. ;-)
first off why at 16 are u having sex??(sorry not trying to lecture you) but theres a ton of risk invoulved just read all of the STD and pregnancy questions on this website. plus there are lots of other ways to express your love for eachother.
now as for your question. your vericocele has nothing to do with your erection failure. it is stress and anxiety about having sex. Its hard to explain how to get over it other than not to worry obout having sex, or if your penis size is to small or anything like that. just relax and go with it. also dont worry about what has happened when you tried to have sex in the past because that just sets your body up to fail. if you are worried about loosing your erection then you will.
Does this make sense?
dont take viagra.....
Hope this helps. let me know if you have any other questions or concerns. ;-)
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