Hi people!
Im really confused on this one. Im not gay, well I dont think so, but I keep having sexual thoughts about having anal intercourse with a guy; I also like the idea of other oral activities. I also have a girlfriend but I cant seem to get used to the idea and I know she will not understand on this one. Trust me, she recjected me big time on tryign anal.
I dont want to cheat but I want to try it I think but im so confused! Also whats the lowdown on the whole safety issue?
Please help
Woz
PS, i dont like to idea of kissing or cuddling guys!!
Im really confused on this one. Im not gay, well I dont think so, but I keep having sexual thoughts about having anal intercourse with a guy; I also like the idea of other oral activities. I also have a girlfriend but I cant seem to get used to the idea and I know she will not understand on this one. Trust me, she recjected me big time on tryign anal.
I dont want to cheat but I want to try it I think but im so confused! Also whats the lowdown on the whole safety issue?
Please help
Woz
PS, i dont like to idea of kissing or cuddling guys!!
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if your gonna do it then use protection, use a condom. You more likely to get aids from anal because of the efficient diffusion into the blood because of the villi in the intestines.
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Hey man, sorry your going through teh confusion, but it'll be okay. A lot of guys, even "totally straight" guys ahve attractions to other males. Sometimes it is just a curiosity and it goes away, many times a guy experiments with a friend in the same situation, sometimes the guy turns out to be really into guys and actually is gay. Just wanting to jack off or blow another guy (or be blown etc) does not make you gay. My roomate is straight, has a longterm girlfrined, but he had sex with a guy once b/c he was confused. Same for a buddy of mine in texas. He was curious for years, met someone, and they safely ahd sex, then parted ways. You ahve many options, but dont ever punish yourself for being curious. good luck bro
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hey Woz what you need to do is dig deeper to find your true self. You do not want to satisfy your needs and sacrifice your relationship, because you may not have another chance. you need to discuss your feelings with her and come to a thorough understanding. I have heard people talk that anal sex is very painful. Make the best decision everyone deserve to be happy.
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My advice GO FOR IT. You'll never know unless u try, and just because u have sexual thoughts about guys doesnt mean ur gay, it just means ur curious, alot of people are in the same situation u r in, if u have a really kool guy friend thats bi/gay or is also curious as u wht dont experiment with him. Thats the real way to know, by experimenting.
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Just to be clear, since he's got a girlfriend already, your advice is that he should have sex with someone else even though he has a girlfriend already? Don't you think he might want to break up with his girlfriend first before experimenting? Or do you suggest that he try it while he's in a relationship? I'm just trying to be clear on what you're saying. Thanks!
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I Agree with Health and Fitness Guy as well,
I don't think you should hold back on your feelings, its natural to be slightly confused and not sure whats going on. Your normal. Who knows you may really like being with another guy. But I feel its only right for you to explain to your girlfriend whats going on. Be clear with her and talk to her. If she likes you enough, she will understand your abit confused and need some space to see what you are really into, and figure some things out.
This is just my advice.....But, I'm sure you will figure some things out.
-Canadian Girl
I don't think you should hold back on your feelings, its natural to be slightly confused and not sure whats going on. Your normal. Who knows you may really like being with another guy. But I feel its only right for you to explain to your girlfriend whats going on. Be clear with her and talk to her. If she likes you enough, she will understand your abit confused and need some space to see what you are really into, and figure some things out.
This is just my advice.....But, I'm sure you will figure some things out.
-Canadian Girl
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I totally totally agree. It's a fear that a lot of people who are not bisexual have, that someone bisexual would cheat on them with someone of the same sex (or opposite, for that matter). Why indulge that paranoia? It's so much easier to talk to someone than to lie and cheat on them instead... But I don't know, I don't think that was the advice that was being given, at least as far as I can tell. ToxicBLue, what exactly did you mean?
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I agree with everyone on healthnfitnessguy. Just see what happens, and try telling your girlfriend about it too. If she doesn't understand, then you should take that as a hint that she doesn't care about your feelings too.
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