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Okay, so my story is kind of a long one. For a few years now, I have been watching both gay and straight porn, and can easily get off to both of them. I honestly think I like gay porn more. I am attracted to both guys and girls, maybe guys a bit more, but nothing for sure. I have no "real" experience with guys or girls. For a long time now, I have wanted to try things with guys and girls, because I think I may be either gay, straight or bi. I have many girls and guys that I am friends with, and are attracted to some of my friends that are both guys and girls. I honestly do not know if I am bi-curious or something, but really want to know how to act on any of my feelings. I have had plenty of sex dreams and a fantasy here or there including me having sex with guys and some with me have sex with a girl. I am a 16 year old guy in highschool, and would be very happy if anyone would comment and try to help me with my confusion. Thank you.

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You should think about things before you jump to conclusion. Stop looking at stuff online, and go get some experience with people out there, after you've tried what you think is enough, you'll be qualified to make a valid decision.

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Thanks, but the only problem with me trying to get experience with guys and girls and everything, is I'm not so sure how to go about doing that, especially with a guy, like what would I do ?
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Just act normal, you are young. You dont need to be thinking about sex or sh*t like that! Just enjoybyour high school years and have fun, but dont tell any1 about ur thoughts (especially your closest friends). Apart from that, have fun with life and take it slow. Also, no matter what abybody else says, it is NOT bad to be gay, bi, or straight. NONE of them atlre sins.
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just like look for gay forums and that sort of things- i'd like to experience gay sort of things also, i have oads of gay dreams and fantasies- i love men and i dont care what anyone else thinks and anyway your 16 you can just ask someone but i dont really know... only 13... and gay porn is just addictive- too addictive so try and keep away from it XD
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I see a lot of good advice here already.

It is entirely normal for males to fantasize about sexual involvement and activities with other males, particularly if their experience with females is limited (or non-existent)..

As a male yourself, your body is exploring your sexual senses, and so the only thing you have to work with is how another boy might feel to you. It's hard to imagine something else when you have no material ("hands-on") experience to work with.

Finding our sexual identity along the full spectrum of human sexuality is a long journey that may never be fully resolved. In other words, our evolving experiences, desires, successes and failures, emotional satisfaction and health all dictate to whom we want to see ourselves being involved -- who we will desire. It's always "in-progress" so to speak.

A good point was made that you are worrying about it your orientation a bit prematurely. Real Life sexual activity is FAR different from what we imagine or plan for it to be once we actually get there. And porn is only designed to get you off no matter which way you go. So, whichever way you turn to try to find sexual pleasure and satisfaction, learn, and consider calmly what you feel from those encounters. There are no rules; you MUST be true to who you are at any given point iin your life. Be a kind and loving friend and confidant, and take love as it comes to you (and it will).

Love whom you can, whenever you can, the best you can, and good luck!

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