hi, im a 14 year old girl and im really confused and dont know what to do i started to masturbate at a young age and after i was done i felt really guilty i thought i was betraying someone or i was a bad child because i did it im really scared and i dont want to feel guilty anymore can some one please tell how to stop feeling those things and why do i feel that way?i have a boyfriend and he thinks masturbating is gross and i feel that way to but for some reason something comes over me and i really want to i dont know what to do is it normal to feel this way and want it so badly am i pervert for wanting to do it with my boyfriend i need someone to tell me if theres something wrong :'( i dont know how to stop!
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Oh, your boyfriend thinks masturbating is gross? If I knew you in person, I'd bet like $100 that he does it himself too, 'cause 99% of people do.
Is masturbation bad for health? Is it sinful? Is it gross? Nope, it's human. If you look at statistics, you'll see that regardless of age group, most people do it. Masturbation is a very normal part of life. If you do not do it in public you have nothing to feel guilty about! Maybe stop talking to your BF about doing it, just like he doesn't tell you about when he does it, and you'll be fine.
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Hi anon,
i think what it might be is you are masterbating too much and too roughly.
try less..not the best comment but i wanted to help!
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Hi there,
I'm so sorry you feel bad about this! Don't feel bad about masturbating. It is a normal part of life and it does not make you a bad child. DO NOT feel the need to tell your boyfriend or anyone else about your masturbation. It is part of your private life.
And while your boyfriend claims he thinks it's gross, it's very likely that he is lying because he feels guilty about his own masturbation. It is estimated nearly 100% of boys and 25% your age masturbate, so you are NORMAL.
Remember, just as long this is not keeping you from spending time doing things you enjoy and no one is making you do it, you're fine!! Here is more information from the University of Michigan:
http://www.med.umich.edu/yourchild/topics/masturb.htm
Best of luck to you honey :)
I'm so sorry you feel bad about this! Don't feel bad about masturbating. It is a normal part of life and it does not make you a bad child. DO NOT feel the need to tell your boyfriend or anyone else about your masturbation. It is part of your private life.
And while your boyfriend claims he thinks it's gross, it's very likely that he is lying because he feels guilty about his own masturbation. It is estimated nearly 100% of boys and 25% your age masturbate, so you are NORMAL.
Remember, just as long this is not keeping you from spending time doing things you enjoy and no one is making you do it, you're fine!! Here is more information from the University of Michigan:
http://www.med.umich.edu/yourchild/topics/masturb.htm
Best of luck to you honey :)
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