im in a bit of a mix up. I had sex with my boy friend Tuesday. I felt the sex deep in my stomach. afterwards, when I got home, and I was cleaning myself, my lips felt sore and mangled. I used a mirror to look at myself and it seemed as if my lips had been stretched. when I showered I only felt pain by touching my labia. It was extremely irritated, and I guess you could say, a touch dry. I kept scratching it like one would scratch a head with dry-scalp. today, it still kind of hurts, I still itch mildly as to not hurt myself. but when i went to the bathroom about 45 minutes ago and used a baby wipe to clean myself, I could have sworn I saw the tiniest bit of blood on the wipe. I got scared so I started wiping vigorously to see if there was anymore. only another small spot and then nothing. right now I feel sick to my stomach in paranoia. im scared I either am a) pregnant or b)have an std or infection of some sort. my biggest hope is that i am worrying for nothing and the matter is that my boyfriend and I are sexually incompatible, as my sex ed teacher told me due to something about "he needs to learn to be more gentle because he is hitting your cervix against your uterus {urethra?}" its been 3 days... help?
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There are a number of things it could be, from irritants to infection. It may be from vigorous sex, reaction to condom material or spermicide or lubricant, or fungal infection or STI.
If it were just an irritant, then clean gently with water, but I would avoid baby wipes &c. Get air to the area as much as possible, so go pantiless where possible with skirt/dress. When you have to wear underwear, wear only cotton panties. Hopefully it should clear up.
If it is infection, then antifungal cream or antibiotics might be needed.
Let me make some obervations and ask some questions to try and help you determine the problem.
- "I had sex" First time?
- "I felt the sex" What do you mea?
- "deep in my stomach" Your stomach is on the left side of your upper abdomen.
- "I was cleaning myself" How, and with what? Why?
- "my lips felt sore and mangled." felt mangled?
- "if my lips had been stretched" had you used lubricants? Condom? He might have been on the large side.
- "i ... used a baby wipe to clean myself" I would stop using baby wipes for a while.
- "I saw the tiniest bit of blood on the wipe" possibly you are raw. The area is richly supplied with blood.
- "I got scared so I started wiping vigorously" not a good idea - be gentle.
- "im scared I ... am ... pregnant" Not yet anyway! That takes several days (I cand explain about that if you wish). But was it at a fertile time?
- "im scared I ... have an std or infection of some sort" That is quite possible, but infections are common and can be treated. STIs are a common risk when you have sex. What do you know of your boyfriends sexual history? Or yours?
- "my biggest hope is that i am worrying for nothing" Hopefully, but is good to be careful.
- "my sex ed teacher told me" You told your sex ed teacher? How old are you?
- "he is hitting your cervix against your uterus {urethra?}" Your cervix is the entrance to your uterus. It could be that his penis is hitting your cervix.
- "your uterus {urethra?}" Your uterus is your womb. Your urethra is the tube that connects your bladder to the outside world and through which you urinate. The opening is between your vagina and clitoris.
I hope this helps you. I trust it will clear up soon.
If you want help regarding understanding your body, just ask.
Take care
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