My boyfriend and I had sex. It was my first time we've been together for a year. Is it normal to stress? Or worry about the condom breaking. (Even though it didn't) LNG just worried. He's telling my not to worry but... "What if" is all that's running through my mind. Any ideas. PLEASE HELP.
I don't know am I not supposed to stress? Or is this normal. He lost his V-card at 10 but has done it with many girls since... So he's experienced. But I'm stressing so much that I'm afraid it'll make my period next month late. Which will stress me out more...
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Hi :-) its perfectly natural to stress your self out like this after your first time and it shows your being sensible thinking about the condom so try not to worry :-)
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i felt that way too and that was today :-| the thing is that he couldnt get in. i was also freaking out but he also told me to calm down so i did. if you're still worried get a pregnancy test just to put you at ease but thats if you're not planning on having a baby. when i got home all the "what if's" were driving me crazy and i also got a stomach ache. some say its the feeling of guilt which i dont understand. but anyway yes it is normal to stress alot and it will make you paranoid just like me. hopefully you're doing fine and try to relax :) go to a doctor and get birth control if you dont want to get pregnant. so ya you and me both :-|
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Hi Pandakiddo if you was freaking out over having intercourse to start with and wasn't relaxed that is why your bf couldn't enter you as your muscles were tensed up. Try to relax more next time and just let things happen naturally rather than planning it. :-)
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I was freaking out after like as in when i got home not during :P and i still am im making a doctors appointment tomorrow also im a bit scared too
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