is watching porn good for health

Most guys like to watch porn. personally I think its a natural instinct. Very few women like porn, in fact most that I have met tend give it a very negative thing to do. My wife thinks its disgusting. I think its better than cheating. To me its like watching tv. Don't put everything in your memory. If you don't like it don't say its bad. You are not harming anyone, it has not ruined my marriage.

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I was nervous about my man watching porn, but now I'm more open to the idea. He doesn't watch them to often, I'm glad of that! Lol, also he only can watch porn when I'm away. However, we talked about it and I told him how it made me feel. Then he reassured me that I shouldn't have to worry. My boyfriend and I now have a great understanding about it. here's a secret, I sometimes sneak and watch them now as well. Lol. In closing, I feel that we all need to communicate to our lovers/partners/husbands how we feel and then come up with a solution for solidifying our relationships instead of looking for a reason to throw in the towel.

Sex is ten times more addictive than drugs. If someone gets addicted to porn videos it is definitely a red flag. First they start with few minutes per day. Then They have to watch several hours a day. After a while they will find the regular porn videos boring. Therefore they look for the other things like anal, rape, child and... . Like many of the movies that teach people to become violent, porn videos teach them to be sexually aggressive. It removes the boundaries. It is definitely something that you have to be worried about. But it is not because you are not good. If your BF watches porn videos, it means there is something wrong with him, not you. I don't agree that guys watch porn videos to educate themselves. Those who are normal prefer to read books, articles, ask their close friends and learn it on their own. Non of them like to learn it from porn videos. I am perfect in sex and I have never watched any porn video. I learned it on my own.

I am a 40 years old man. I have seen so many guys addicted to porn videos. Non of them watched it to learn something. All of them watch it because there was something wrong with them psychologically. Some of them were not used to have sex with their wives at all, but were used to watch porn videos several hours a day. Is this normal? I am asking those who say it is normal to watch porn videos. It is not normal and it will be ended to a deep addiction.

Lastly, a friend of mine broke up with her girlfriend when he found out that she was used to watch porn videos with her ex. When I asked more, he said she was not sexually normal and she had a lot of problems in having orgasm. She was not used to experience orgasm through normal ways.

Conclusion: A normal person does not watch pron videos. S/he doesn't enjoy it. It not only is not normal to watch porn videos, but it is harmful and a big red flag. Whether you like it or not. Those who also watch porn videos may not like my answer, but fact is fact and truth hurts.

Think about this for a second how many girls would still go out with a guy if they heard, wow you are beautiful and I love you but I need to look at other girls naked to satisfy me. How does that work you are completely lying to her, if you love her so much and if hurts her self esteem would you stop for her, hopefully you would because any girl that is a good woman would not put up with that. If you love porn so much break up with her and tell me how amazing it is not not have a girl and look at fantasy pics and movies all day. Women are emotional creatures they look for stability in a man, they look for trust and that connection and that comfort knowing that their man is satisfied just in them, if they do not have that trust and stability then good luck in bed, the man might enjoy but it will do very little for a women, why do you think marriages are so short, because the man thinks that he can do whatever he wants because he has needs and then the wife gets hurt and holds that resentment against him, and then sooner or later it blows up in both of their faces. If you love someone that means you should be willing to die for that person, including giving up anything that is hurting that person. So what do love more your girl or the porn? you cannot have both.

Yes you can have both dude. Some girls do not like the idea of their guy watching porn because it may make them feel insecure and not wanted. Some girls are open to the idea and don't mind. And then there are a few girls that like to watch porn with their guys. Really, its about communication. The two have to talk about what the other person doesn't like.

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You shouldn't view your guy watching porn as a bad thing. Its perfectly fine and acceptable in normal society. Many, MANY people watch porn and say they don't or admit to not watching porn just because they think that other people or society will view them badly. There are many reasons for a person to watch porn. Knowledge, curiosity, to get off. Are any of those reasons bad? If your worried that he's watching porn to replace you, your probably wrong. He most likely just wants some "me" time. Think about it this way: Do you always want to get off the exact same way every time? I hope not. I would try to communicate openly with your partner about this. If you feel he is neglecting you, tell him that's how you feel and both of you should try to figure out something that works for you both. Maybe you should try watching some porn yourself. Like I said, porn is not bad or evil.

this is a delicate thing to say, but you seem to have a lot of fire in your belly. You're bold and direct... This may be a turn-off. Guys are guys... They have testosterone, which makes them aggressive. And you yourself seem to be aggressive with loads of exclaimation points behind your sentences. To the point of what you said, people seem to think that "he's watching porn, so he has his outlet... If he DOESN'T watch porn, then I'm the only outlet", and so they look to BLAME porn. That's like owning a pizza resturant, but your son keeps buying pizza from a competing pizza place, therefore you assume that the pizza resturant is stealing your son away from you. In reality, you can rationalize that the kid either has a liking for the OTHER pizza, and doesn't like YOUR pizza... OR he has an appetite for other things and doesn't like YOUR pizza. Understanding hunger and appetites will lend you some understanding in understanding the male sex drive. Someone who likes to have sex will always have sex with you regardless of weather he watches pornography. The male sex drive recovers very quickly. If he's not having sex with you, it's not porn's fault. Being beautiful weather self-proclaimed or not isn't enough. You can take an awesome body, give it a raspy voice and oscar the grouches attitdue, and one will lose the appetite of desire for that thing.



If the pizza at home is bad and the only other pizza is a competing pizzariia, then you eat at the compitition or starve. There is a bigger problem in your relationship other than sex, but as for porn, it seems as if you feel like you're competiting with porn mags. You're not. He's just hungry and perhaps doesn't like the pizza at home, no matter how beautiful she is. This is easily corrected, I mind you...



All of this is my opinion and none of my business, and awfully direct. Hopefully you can see through all this and take something with you, because it can be taken as quite insulting... (very much so after a proof read) And I don't at all intend it in that way. I'm earnestly trying to offer advice and help.

i think that porn can be good and bad, as is anything (well almost anything).
it really depends on the man or woman, if the person masturbates to porn in order to get a bigger penis for his girlfriend, he's just considering his girlfriends pleasure, but if he is really masturbating because he thinks feels that it feels better than sex (due to his imagination most likely), then there's a problem.
Just ask your boyfriend why he watches porn, then watch it with him, observe him and see if his reason is true.
Technically, girls feel more pleasure than guys, but guys are the ones that are hornier by nature, why? because they can get various women pregnant, and isn't the goal of every species on this earth to preserve its kind? It is a natural thing, and ejaculating helps release tension that builds up over time as the body is begging itself to reproduce as fast as possible.
So think of it as a natural thing, just as girls have their periods, we men, have to have sex (or something like it) when we are young.
But can a man hold it? he certainly can. It's a big debate, and it just depends on the morals you believe in, as does anything. I mean, when did anything label itself as bad or good? You don't go into a supermarket and see labels on all products that says "GOOD" and "BAD".
I believe in god, but i believe in the simplicity of life and the mind, or, science.
It's your choice, but before you decide anything, think of it for a long time, and go with it for as long as you can, if you are not sure of what you want to decide.
Good luck, i sincerely hope you find an answer to your question, but just don't assume things and get upset right away, make sense of things first.

hi friends i have a problem i get addicted to porn pictures i dont know how to over come this problem can anybody give me some suggestion please

I wonder if there is any good alternative for porn in this world (like about sex positions and so). Would it be the kama sutra book? I am nearly a virgin man, waiting to marry this autumn. Should I ask my pastor or psychologist to guide me in sex life at least in the first half a year or so? Honestly, I still need a lot of advice despite having done heavy petting with one gf and sex with another (but proper sex i only did twice in my life). I hope you can give me some advice coz i come from conservative christian family in eastern europe and sex was pretty much taboo in the extended family and church (until maybe 5-7 years ago when it started to relax a bit). As far as i see my present gf has quite big sex drive and don't wanna hurt her or become frustrated myself in the future. I know porn is not good (I feel like possessed whenever i watch it for a longer time, like 2 hours) and i intend to give it up altogether (although honestly it taught me how to deflower future wife in a gentle manner; i am a bit nervous type and if didn't see those clips i would probably do it fast thus causing wife a lot of pain). I never took anyone's virginity, i will do only this autumn to my wife (i am 29 yo by the way). Peace to all

Porn is good i think,I hate pro porn as i hate things thats fake,But amateur porn is great back in my young days we didn't have the net so it was videos that we found from a mates dad,But watching it gave me a insight of what some women like and how some things are done,Maybe this is why i love giving oral.

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Dont be upset :) I'm a young, married woman and both my husband and I enjoy porn. I probably watch it more than he does while he's away haha. I think wayyy more women should watch porn; it'll up your sex drive and honestly make you feel better about your own body. If you're with someone you love, its a very intimate, empowering thing for a woman. Also, I didn't "find out" that my hubby watched porn, I knew he did - because ALL guys do, no matter what they tell you. All women should know this, you shouldn't have a hunch, or be shocked when he admits it. They're men, they're hard wired that way and thats that. Women get so offended so easily by this, and I used to too - until I just, grew up a little. Accept the facts for what they are. Try it out yourself! Next time you talk about it and he expects to get in trouble, knock his socks off and say, "well...how about we watch one together?" - Also, for the girl who's boyfriend would rather watch porn than have sex with her - move on! If hes such an issue for you, show him the door. Tell him how it is with no mind games, you have your needs too!