hello
to begin with,
my husband absolutly does not know how to show passion or romance.
the ONE thing i desire most in life.
he does not give.
he wooed me before we were married.
as soon as we were married it immediatly STOPPED.
i have the converstion with him about it every month since.
we've been married 2 and half years now.
we have a 10 month old baby and i feel like i am living with a friend with occassional benefits minus the flirtation.
i am going through a lot of pain right physically so being a stay at home mom has put a lot of stress on my body that is always hurting,
so its not exactly easy with ALL OF THESE CONDITIONS I HAVE MENTIONED, not easy for me to WANT to just take my clothes off and hop on top of him like he always expects.
like helllooo i'm not a robot!
3 days before we were married he cheated on me and lied about it.
he has been watching porn online i guess since he was a kid.
i caught him, we went to therapy for a day becuase he wouldnt talk.
i explianed how i felt,
i went through a huge depression mode.
he supposedly stopped.
but just this morning i noticed the word boobies in the google search engine.
i checked the history. it was all deleted.
hes lieing again.
sometimes we will have sex a couple times a week whereas other times we dont have sex for a few weeks at a time.
but that doesnt mean he has to watch porn when he knows how i feel about it and LIE about it after i told him if he doest it againa dn i find out i;m leaving.
i dont knwo what to do.
to begin with,
my husband absolutly does not know how to show passion or romance.
the ONE thing i desire most in life.
he does not give.
he wooed me before we were married.
as soon as we were married it immediatly STOPPED.
i have the converstion with him about it every month since.
we've been married 2 and half years now.
we have a 10 month old baby and i feel like i am living with a friend with occassional benefits minus the flirtation.
i am going through a lot of pain right physically so being a stay at home mom has put a lot of stress on my body that is always hurting,
so its not exactly easy with ALL OF THESE CONDITIONS I HAVE MENTIONED, not easy for me to WANT to just take my clothes off and hop on top of him like he always expects.
like helllooo i'm not a robot!
3 days before we were married he cheated on me and lied about it.
he has been watching porn online i guess since he was a kid.
i caught him, we went to therapy for a day becuase he wouldnt talk.
i explianed how i felt,
i went through a huge depression mode.
he supposedly stopped.
but just this morning i noticed the word boobies in the google search engine.
i checked the history. it was all deleted.
hes lieing again.
sometimes we will have sex a couple times a week whereas other times we dont have sex for a few weeks at a time.
but that doesnt mean he has to watch porn when he knows how i feel about it and LIE about it after i told him if he doest it againa dn i find out i;m leaving.
i dont knwo what to do.
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There are more issues at stake here than just his watching porn.
You are inferring that his watching porn is affecting his sex drive and you're sastifaction level.
The fact is that many men watch or use porn, despite the fact that they are married or have regular sexual outlets.
But it would appear that there are issues of trust in your marriage and that is underlying most of your concerns.
I would schedule an appointment with a marrage counselor... and whether or not he attends with you, go yourself.
You will gain more insight into your situation and how you feel than you currently realize.
Good luck.
You are inferring that his watching porn is affecting his sex drive and you're sastifaction level.
The fact is that many men watch or use porn, despite the fact that they are married or have regular sexual outlets.
But it would appear that there are issues of trust in your marriage and that is underlying most of your concerns.
I would schedule an appointment with a marrage counselor... and whether or not he attends with you, go yourself.
You will gain more insight into your situation and how you feel than you currently realize.
Good luck.
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