I really enjoy masturbating mostly when am lonely,I f**k myself wit candles,like 3 sticks cos 4 never worked,now I enjoy masturbating more than aving real sex wit my bf,hope its normal?
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How does your bf feel about this?
Maybe he should hold the candles.
Why didn't 4 work?
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Hi dudu, masturbating is completely normal, even when you are in a relationship. It can become a problem though if you use it as a way of avoiding physical or emotional closeness. What is it you like about masturbating that you don't get from your bf? Talk to him and get him to do those things. Masturbating can feel great because you know exactly what you like. If you want that from your bf then you nerd to teach him, in the nicest possible way. And if he won't listen and do that for you he is being selfish. Find someone who will. I hope that helps
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My bf does nt stop me 4rm masturbating just dt I can't do it to his face,am too shy to do that.what I enjoy about masturbating is dt,I get to orgasm and feel satisfied unlike wit my bf,he can make me get to orgasm just dt I always avoid it cos I will nt be able to satisfy him once I get to orgasm before him.
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Hi dudu, why can't you satisfy him after you have had an orgasm? Or two or three? You don't have to orgasm at the same time. Often couples will make sure the woman cums first before the man orgasms because once he cums he often needs w rest before doing anything for a while. Of course he can always pleasure her once he's cum but will probably feel more like doing it before he has cum. there should be no reason I can think of why you can't bring him to orgasm once you have had one. And remember women are nuch more likely to orgasm from oral sex or clitoral stimulation than intercourse. I hope that helps.
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Yes us guys are wired funny. After I orgasm I lose a lot of interest in sex. Thus the big complaint women have about us wanting to roll over, have a cigarette and go to sleep. That's not to say I no longer want to pleasure her but it is less pleasing for me to see her come.
Sally is right, we feel more like it before we come. I always made my wife come first my doing her orally mainly because if I went in right away I would come long before she was anywhere close. It's not something I was taught how to do, I just worked it out myself. You are very lucky to have a place like this where it gets discussed.
Thinking about it now when she came while I was doing her orally I would usually come along with her but that didn't seem to lower my desire to go inside her and come again. But if I had an orgasm by masturbating or being inside her I got the old roll over and go to sleep thing.
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