im a 15 year old boy and theres a guy a year younger than me that ive known for about 10 years. i consider myself to be straight as i find many girls atractive but ive started to have a sexual atraction to this guy so wot should i do?
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This is a tough one.
On one hand, you're still in flux, developing and exploring relationships.
On the other hand, you're acknowledging that you have feelings toward another.
It is difficult to advise you, as I'm not there, and I don't have to deal with the consequences. However, you do.
Although I would like to think that everyone can handle an expression of affection maturely, it just isn't so.
As a result, I'd be slow to act on these new feelings.
Remember, he's younger than you, and probably not as experienced as you are. The person you're expressing interest in is a minor, as are you.
I would go very slow, and simply invite him to go get a bite to eat at the hamburger stand... or take in a movie this summer. It doesn't have to be anything big. Just enjoy his company. Talk with him about non-threatening mutual topics of interest. Be a friend to him.
From his reaction, you'll get some sense if he's comfortable with you, but you may not learn if he's interested in you too.
I wouldn't do anything physical toward him. That can wait until you both know your mind and feelings a bit better. In the meantime, also continue to date girls and see how comfortable you are with them, one by one. I wouldn't suggest being physical with them either. Just continue as is.
Let us know how it goes.
Good luck.
On one hand, you're still in flux, developing and exploring relationships.
On the other hand, you're acknowledging that you have feelings toward another.
It is difficult to advise you, as I'm not there, and I don't have to deal with the consequences. However, you do.
Although I would like to think that everyone can handle an expression of affection maturely, it just isn't so.
As a result, I'd be slow to act on these new feelings.
Remember, he's younger than you, and probably not as experienced as you are. The person you're expressing interest in is a minor, as are you.
I would go very slow, and simply invite him to go get a bite to eat at the hamburger stand... or take in a movie this summer. It doesn't have to be anything big. Just enjoy his company. Talk with him about non-threatening mutual topics of interest. Be a friend to him.
From his reaction, you'll get some sense if he's comfortable with you, but you may not learn if he's interested in you too.
I wouldn't do anything physical toward him. That can wait until you both know your mind and feelings a bit better. In the meantime, also continue to date girls and see how comfortable you are with them, one by one. I wouldn't suggest being physical with them either. Just continue as is.
Let us know how it goes.
Good luck.
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