Gay teen, and have a crush on a few of my guy friends.

I would come out to them. Chances are they'll come around and see that you're still the same person. If they don't accept you they're not worth having as friends. Who knows, maybe one of them is gay and just repressing his feelings? ;) Best of luck!

Im 15. I have a huge crush (Cannot stop dirty fantasies about him) He is so small and cute, tanned skin like a babys butt, voice hasnt broke yet and his cheeky smile showing his teeth is amazing gets me weak at the knees I guess it turns me on how young and feminine he looks (he is same age) As if he could be any sexier he has a lovely curved butt which is orgasmic. I swear if he pulled his pants down i would beg him not to pull them back up. I love the thought of pleasuring him and planting my face in his nice ass. I think i am obsessed. I even dreamt about him showering next to me. But normally all I want is gorgeous girls. Is this just a phase??

Hi Curious
The answer too many questions about sexuality are often known without asking and the difficulty can be in accepting the answer and coming to terms with it.
I think these incredibly strong feelings you have for your friend are more than just a curiosity and that is just my opinion, many guys go through a stage where they experiment with same sex relationships.
The way you describe your feelings and fantasies for your friend I think are well beyond a simple crush or curiosity.
There is nothing wrong with you being attracted to him and if you decide to attempt a relationship with him that is fine as well.
The statement normally all I want is gorgeous girls is that because that it what is expected and do any of these girls stir up the same strong feeling you have for him?
So that being said are you straight bi or gay or just curious can best be answered only by you but when you answer it think what would the answer be if we lived in a world that anyone can be open and honest about their sexuality.
Good luck and if you need it youth LGBT support groups can be a wonderful resource for many people.

Thanks for reply. So helpful. Only a few times have I been as sexually aroused by boys but this guy is so handsome its unbelievable. I think the attraction will always be there but will get over not being able to think about him I am sure. Only time will tell I guess. Frequent masturbation is a problem at the moment though=(

Hy I know how you feel I have been in the same boat I also had a crush on this one guy.let me give you some advice don't tell them how you feel trust me you will only get yourself hurt I know my heart has been broken so badly by this guy so to save yourself from a broken heart don't do it that's all I'm saying

Hi Confused2015270313,

I think you should tell them because hiding this type of thing from your friends can be very hard. I myself am 16 and have had this problem. I know you said "Cause I know for a fact one of my friends hates gay people, and my other friend doesn't like to be around them." and that is a good and bad thing depending on how you look at it. On one hand, with him being your friend and you have known him "forever", they may take a different approach to how they treat you because you are friends. On the other, they may not be too happy for a while but may change their mind after they've given it a bit of thought. You will never really know unless you try. But before you say anything, you need to make sure that you aren't infatuated. Infatuation isn't real love, its almost like an illusion. Sometimes this happens with crushes and you can never really tell the difference. If they accept you, and I hope they do, then you have some really good friends. But if they don't then maybe try finding some better friends. Friends are supposed to care about you and support you no matter what and if they aren't doing this then they aren't good friends. Anyways, good luck.

It's perfectly normal. At least 8 in 10 guys go through this in their lifetime at least twice. I would suggest talking to him about this. Maybe hint at different types of relationships and you may find out how he feels about you too?

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