Lacerations on my privates

I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. I recently got sick and started taking some antibotics since I had a sore throat, was coughing to the brink of throwing up, and was sneezing like crazy. I get sick someonewhere around 2-4 times a year, but have never experienced all of theose symptons together. I was taking some anti-biotics but suddenly stopped, about a week later my throat was feeling sore again so I started taking some vitamin C.

I found it painful to urinate, had a high fever running for about 3 days straight and the day after I found small bumps on my vagina. They looked like ingrown hairs, stupidely I plucked out the hairs that were on or around the bumps. Then I shaved. Not a good idea considering the bumps became like these sore or pimple like things. I must of ripped off the top layer of skin on them because the top looked like when you have a scab and you take a shower and the scab becomes soft and white. The top looked just like that. It was very painful but I was more worried about inflamation that I had within my vagina, the painful burning feeling when I urinated, and a yellow and occasionally white goo I was secreting. I went to the hospital because it was very difficult for me to walk and the pain had intensified. 

The doctor looked at my lacerations (or pimples) and ruled it Herpes. I couldnt believe it. I asked her how long I might have had this and she said that considering I had been with this partner for 11 months, I must have recieved it from him. She aslo saw my secretion and ruled that I had Gonorrhea and or Chlamydia. I was dumbfounded. I felt overwhelemed at the fact that my partner might have introduced this uncurable disease (Herpes) into our relationship. 

I asked for a urine exam or a blood test because I wanted more than her eyes worth to tell me for sure whether I had this or not, but she refused. I was given an ultrasound however, which changed her whole story. After about 4 hours in the hospital I was told that I had a cancerous cyst that might be inducing the vaginal inflamation and secretion of yellow liquid. She said that it might not be Chlamydia or Gonorrhea at all. 

I resorted to ask her about the Herpes, she said that not many things cause sores like that, and that she was for the most part positive that it was Herpes. I looked around at home however and notice that my lacerations look nothing like the ones on pictures that I find on the internet. I stumbled upon a thread that mentioned Folliculitis, I looked up images and they look fairly similar to what I had. 

The doctor told me to follow up with a gynecologist because of the cancerous cyst. Does that mean I have Herpes? I read somewhere that many lumps and bumps down there can result in a doctor giving you a flase diagnostic. I spoke to my significant other and he has agreed to take a blood test as well. If he is negative does that mean I am negative for Herpes as well?

Please and thank you.