HI. I just took 18 about 2 months ago and my boyfriend and I finally gave in and started having sex. It doesn't last long, a few seconds perhaps because he usually is almost there before we begin. It hurts like crazy when he inserts his penis, he took my virginity and since then we have only had sex 4 other times..He isn't rough but at the end of it, i have a bit of light bleeding, about six drops to say the least and that's all. We done it only these few times already and am scared to anything more. Is it anything serious that i should worry about? HELP ME PLEASE.. AM SOO SCARED :cry: .. The internet keeps saying some frightening stuff and i can't get it checked out by a Doctor as yet because in my country, your parents still need to be contacted and they will raise HELL! I'm wondering if Cervical dysplasia is the problem. Is it? He is the only person i ever did ANTHING WITH and to think that after all this time..as soon as we get into this..something serious happens..is pure turtore..please HELP ME :( :cry:
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Hello Keriibabii. My Girlfriend had the SAME problem. Its more than just "getting used" to penetration. Vaginismus, or vaginism, is actually a simple mental block. Your nervouseness or being scared is causing the muscles to contract. That, on top of needing lubrication, is your problem. I encourage you to look Vaginismus up though! Good luck!
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