I am a mother of three and when I look at myself in the mirror I can say that most of me looks pretty good, but I have a great big belly flap hanging over my trousers and it is not actually that I weigh too much as a whole, but the belly needs to go. I don't even want my husband to see me naked any more. So it is lights out in the bedroom and under the covers :-). I want to change that drastically. I could really do with some advice. Please help me. Give me any idea. I would be willing to spend quite a bit of money to make this happen as well.