making sure I please my bbw

Hi. Rather than trying to fulfill her with intercourse try going down on her and giving her a lot of oral first that way it will help her relax help her produce more lubrication and lastly help her vagina expand ready for intercourse. If you go down on her and bring her nearly to orgasm then back off a bit and just hold her at that point it should also drive her wild.

See here the thing if you want to get more into my problem I love ogle an as much as I like getting it I love giving o go down on her almost every time I would even do it without sex but her on the other hand is a getter not a giver we ment when I was 16 an I'm not 28 we have a 5 year old son. But we have had our ups and downs for sure we just got back together a few months ago from our longest brack of 3 years in that time I met an had a kid to another girl who was fit very sexy an was as much of a freak as me we had the best sex I ever had. But can't get along so back to my girl she don't like to suck it much an I'm use to getting it all the time an when I eat her she just gets tighter an I can get like the head in but by time I get it in an open to me I have got off or went soft or both an I cum but it's not orgasm Plus she don't help me by playing with herself an spreading her p***y or open her legs so I have a good Angle I'm openly kinky but she not an I'm uncomfortable and unsure of how to talk to her about this an don't want to make her uncomfortable in anyway or think I'm not happy with her We have done something in the past like video lots of foreplay even had a 3some with another girl an I want to open that door again I'm a freak every time she has a toy we use sometimes an I like that and think she would be down for other things but like I said I can't think of how to bring this to her without making things wired for her or mad or anything other than kinkyer sex I need her to tell OR show me she ok with it an some of the kinky thing she into cuz we all know that we think about even if you don't tell anyone lol so hope you can take that an get me freaky again thanks an sorry so long I'm down for anything once just no other guys I have enough penis for her as long as she keeps me turn on I can go all night oh yeah last but not least nothin go in or around my butt

to me it sounds like your relationship is very one sided you expect her to do anything you want but he she was to suggest things like another guy your against it but you have no concerns about having another woman involved.

No I don't have a problem with that at all I'm just can't perform in front of another guy if that's something she would want it would be ok with me as long as I knew an he is someone that we are both comfortable with cuz I would do that for her if that's what you want but iwant us to do it together I like our sex don't get me wrong I'm just into different things then she use to an want to make our sex life better when we had the 3some an was ok with an come to like the girl doin things to her but didn't really like going down on her but kiss play with her watch an help her suck me cuz she don't like to an the other girl did so was hoping if I could open that door again she would still be into that so not selfish I'm thinking for both us she hasn't said anything yet but I know I'm not performing the way she know I can so I know she has to be kinda in the same boat as me

She know I'm a freak an into that stuff I don't want to make anything worse or or her think I don't want to have good sex with her cuz I do need to think of how to bring it up with making her uncomfortable that's all