how to give her the most pleasure?

As a girl i would say ....Eat her...... That would pleasure her :)

I do a lot almost every time an she loves it I get her off fast an easy but it just makes her tighter then she already is I am well hung an have a hard time getting it in without lube witch I dislike cuz once I'm in her she gets nice an wet an open for me then it's to wet for me the problem here is that I'm not 100% satisfied with our sex life so I'm not performing the best I can an don't want her to become unhappy with her being a bbw witch isn't a problem I'm into bigger girls the thing is her fat but nice ass an thigh Make it hard for me to get to her in the right angle to get it in easily cuz I have such a hard time I get off from the pressure go so of or both she don't do anything to help me like playing with herself and spreading her p***y for me or open her hips an leg to where I can get it in without a problem an to add to my goin soft problem is that I am a hope freak an she not we started dating when I was 16 I am now 28 we have try an done a few kinky thing in the past life video sex games and toys even had a 3some with another woman an I loved every min of it but that was years ago we have had our ups and downs we just started dating again a few months ago from our longest time apart of 3 years in that time I met a girl that was small then I'm use to bein with plus she turn out to be just as much of a freak as me we had the craziest porn star sex best I ever had an she love to suck me all the time till I cum I her mouth an she loved it my girl now on the other hand don't like it much but she will sometimes but will not let me cum in her mouth but that's not so much of a problem as the kinky sex I got into it use to having it now I don't an can't get into it or stay hard an I don't know how to bring this up with her without making things wired or uncomfortable for either one of us she has a toy we use from time to time an I like that plus w have done things before so I think she would be down for it a want to try new things for me but can't think of the right way to go about it anymore idea