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Hi nano, first off, congratulations on your engagement. apart from the anus a woman has a vagina, which is probably what you are talking about, and is where the penis is inserted for sex. The other opening is much smaller and at the front. It is the urethra and is where urine comes out. If your hymen is still intact it is in your vagina and will most likely break the first time you have sex. But even if you are a virgin it may have already broken. And you may not bleed the first time you have sex. A broken hymen does NOT mean you are not a virgin. Neither does no blood. It is important to be educated about sex before you start to have sex. If you didn't receive sex education at school or in some other form then check out a reputable website for young people. Don't go to a forum like this for that. It can be very useful but there can also be some misinformation. There are sites for young people about sex and sexuality. All the best and may your marriage be filled with live and happiness

Hi Nano

"i m gttng married" - Congratulations. How old are you, and where are you from?

"the vagina opens inside" The vagina is the channel that connects the uterus (womb) to the exterior, so it actually opens outside.

"we girls have a small pipe like opening" girls have two openings: the vagina and the urethra (which connects the bladder to the exterior). But girls also have a clitoris (sensitive erectile tissue) which is the female equivalent of the male penis, and could be described as pipe-like.

• The vagina is the passage through which your menstrual flow exits your body.
• The urethra is the passage through which urine exits your body.
• The clitoris is only for pleasure, and nothing exits your body through it.

So what do you mean by "pipe-like"?

"Is that the area where the boy inserts his penis" The boy inserts his penis into the vagina. If he ejaculates, the sperm in his semen will try to swim into your uterus and to your fallopian tubes where it will wait to fertilise an egg if it is released in time.

"the boy inserts his penis to break the hymen" when the boy inserts his penis, the hymen will probably break. It may be that breaking the hymen is the particular aim shortly after you are married, but it is the place he should frequently insert his penis as an intimate expression of your commitment to and love for each other.

I hope this helps a bit more. If you want more help, please ask.