Masturbation for girls? (Help?)

Just use what is always going to be available, your hands.

hmmm.....
stuff around the house, first of all, im alrady in love with you, second of all,
cucumbers, bananas, handle of a hairbrush, plastic part of a screwdriver, showerhead, electric toothbrush, pillows, blankets, corner of a leather chair or sofa, anything that isn't dirty, but will get you off

hi im a 16 yr old girl that have jsut discovered masterbation i get turned on by swimsuits... i like to wear them and rub my vagina... am i mental? does anyone else do this? please reply!!!!!

What turns you on isn't a factor, just as long as you get turned on, if you weren't getting turned on at all by anything, that wouldn't be normal.

Hello,

I am a 20 year old virgin who has never been able to bring herself to masturbate more than just through my pants/panties. I try several times to slide a finger inside me, but I can never actually tell -where- I'm putting that finger. (Dumb, right?) I am also the biggest worrier on the planet, so I get scared easily and I worry about hurting myself somehow or doing something wrong. So, I was just wondering if you could help me with this. I have mild pubic hair growth, so I can't exactly -see- where my finger is going. Also, I have Cerebral Palsy in my legs... which is a downer for me because when I do masturbate (through pants/panties at least), I do fine up until that certain point where my body begins to jerk each time I rub over a certain area down between my legs. And if I continue too long, my legs tense and stiffen and then a cramp grips them so I have to stop and try to relax it while crying my eyes out from the pain of it... Is there any possible way to reduce that risk? Or stop it completely? Overcome it, maybe?

Another thing is this "light fetish" I have. When I masturbate, I tend to want to make myself pee. It takes a while, but eventually, if my hand doesn't tire out, or if I don't reach that 'point' where my body starts jerking and stiffening, I start urinating and I make it so that I won't stop for a while. Is there any way possible to make myself pee quicker/easier? I know drinking lots of water would probably help, of course, but other than that?

Oh, one more thing... I never actually "felt" myself orgasm before. I've noticed it on the pads I wear (long story short, I constantly wear pads because I have this weird "leakage" issue. It's nothing serious, I don't think, it's just... I always feel damp/naked without one it's been so long. I know it's the body's normal way of cleaning the body out down there, but... ><) sometimes, but I don't remember -feeling- it come out. I want to reach that point of no return where I FEEL it coming and I revel in that moment for minutes at a time because it's such a good feeling....

Please help me!

Thanks,
Emily, TX, 20

Emily, you know what try to have sex with a real person and you will see. don't be shy and scare you are 20 years old.

OK, honestly, Im a boy, not a girl, but what ive gathered over the few years of my knowledge of masterbation, is that there are many ways to masterbate. e.g. rubbing using hands, soft toys, clothes might work too, maybe? Sticking stuff in there and going in and out in and out (my god I think I might masterbate over my own reply soon) will work, when using fingers, mainly the 2 middle fingers, dildos, vibrators seem to feel really good for you girls, ucumbers, as mentioned before, but bananas, well frozen bananas maybe, but ive eaten lots of bananas (fruit), even yesterday actually, and its not exactly the hardest fruit around. I also once heard of this girl who discovered masterbation through rubbing her vagina on the side of some sort of household furnature or something when she was 5 or something. Anyway, you should count yourself lucky, girls have tons and tons of ways to pleasure yourselves, but with men, we have very little, one of the reasons why so many men look up porn on the internet for (including me).

Also for the girl that gets the cramps, I may not have that thing you have whatever you called it, but sometimes when I masterbate I get some cramps too and most of the time it all depends on the position your legs are in. Mainly spreading them out too far, which you girls do when you masterbate, I think. Anyway, just think of your positioning on the place where you're masterbating. Also, you might not be reaching orgasms because of the way youre masterbating, some ways should make you feel pleasure more than others would. Really, if youre 20 years old, then you more than likely know of the clitoris, or more commonly known as the clit. The clit is a womens source of pleasure so if youre not getting an orgasm, aim for there. Also when I masterbate, I always fantasize. Im not sure if you girls NEED to fantasize to get pleasure, but it helps, I think, and if ones not helping you, think of another one, or search something on the internet, there are more than 1,000,000, as far as Im awhere of, sites that have porn on them, probably, Im not sure never counted them as i search them on Google, so I estimated it, but theres more than likely more. Im not sure if it has pron for girls or if it can give you a fantasy or not, but is a great place for porn, although there are many, many, Im sorry, ultramany more sites out there for you to have a look at. Also watch some TV programmes or movies, find some guy who you think is hot or cute or whatever, and google hime either on the internet or in your mind. Now since youre a girl, no offense, but you might not like looking up porn as a way of cumming or orgasming, but it will help, I swear it. Also dressing up as what turns you on may also help a lot in this search for the golden orgasm, like that girl said earlier about dressing in a swinsuit and rubbing her vagina, if it turns you on, and its not against the law (like how some sickos like torturing/raping people for pleasure, somehow) then do it.

Hope you both get the pleasure you want. Cheers

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hi chaugh how u doing i now some one using  swimsuits it is prafact and nice how u feeling when using  it

have u got sex with a man

 

Softfang i have the exact same issue. My mother told me i twas some kind of condition because i was born a bit premature.when i was younger i had special pills to keep the leakage under control but after a while they didnt work very well. So i had to try to to keep myself from making accidents and such. Its either that or i get surgery. Now a days i have it mostly under control but still where pads every now and then, kinda feel nude without them. Im glad im not the only one with this problem though.

Try using a mascara tube they work quite well I have also used a pencil and pen. Anything hard and round will work

No u r not mental I don't get tuned on by swimsuits everyone has something that makes them tic. I will tell u I love to rub my vagina. I have CP so I don't get much time explore my vagina, but I have found one of the best ways to masterbate is to lay on your stomach in bed & spread your legs & insert your fingers. Hope u ware your swimsuits try them in bed.

If you're in the shower and have one that detaches grab put the strongest pluse setting to can and aim it where it feels best and think of something or someone steamy thoughts and you'll thank me later
Lizzy 16 ATX Cerebral Palsy