how do girls and guys pleasure themselves?

i am a 14 year old guy and i have been masturbating since i was 9 or 10. i masturbate by getting reaaly turned on, sometimes i watch porn, and get my penis really big. than i take my pants off and grab my penis with one hand and stroke it up and down. i go harder and faster as time goes by, and then pressure builds ip and i cum. i think what alot of girls do is they stroke or rub their vagina, and sometimes finger it. then as you get comfortabe masturbating, you can start to finger yourself. and dont worry, you wont damage your hymen hope this helped!

well first  try to use  your finger  in her  p***y

then little by little try to  put  your big huge penis  in her

after a few minutes, try to kiss her lips

 

guys and girls treat them self as they would some one the want to be with

try to use a DILDO