Masturbation worries! Sounds silly but Im tearing myself apa

10119387 over a year ago

this is going to sound so stupid. but after finding out that you dont have to penetrate to get pregnant, i have become very worried about my masturbation habits. i usually masturbate on the toilet as its somewhere i can lock the door and be alone. however im worried that me ejaculating down the toilet could get a member of my family/guest pregnant. i always flush it down and wipe any that may not have gone into the water in the bowl with toilet tissue, and i dont ever remember any going on the toilet seat, and either way i would have wiped it up/used soap to clean it. what im asking is whether someone could get pregnant from it? i know it sounds soooo stupid but its making me sick with worry (i usually get hypochondriac type symptoms when i hear health related stuff) so any help would be useful as i cant ask my school friends. all of this only adds to my masturbation guilt trips.
thank you.

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amb1238711553 over a year ago

No one can get pregnant from this. Just remember to always wipe it off, but the sperm dies when it becomes dry, which is basically a few seconds after it hits air. You're in the clear. There's no reason to feel guilty about masterbating. It is normal.

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10119387 over a year ago

anyone please?

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hopeIhelped19472 over a year ago

No, shut up. This is such a naive question, you will not get anyone pregnant from that. Really, once your sperm hits the seat, it is already being killed, and dies within seconds because of them bacteria in that area. Really don't worry.

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10119387 over a year ago

amb12387 sorry i couldnt see your reply, there was an add over it! thanks for the reply. hopeIhelped, sorry but I obviously am naive but thanks for your answer. perhaps it does sound stupid but i have seriously been worried sick about this.

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ItsOCDman over a year ago

Not possible.

If you keep on doubting nonetheless, sounds like you might have an OCD worry.

I am an OCD sufferer and unwanted pregnancy has been an obsession of mine since I remember. It makes impossbile scennarios possible and causes anxiety 24/7 when you have the slightest possibility of doubt. It can also ruin your sex-life and love life if persistent.

Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy is often recommended for OCD sufferers, as well as regular therapy, but I personally think it's *beep*and will only mess your head up worse.

However, visiting a shrink to get some Xanax and SSRI prescribed might be a good idea. A combination of these meds, and later only SSRI treatment has diminished my exaggerated worries and enabled me to get about again.

OCD is not just compulsive bahaviours, as people often think, but also OBSESSIVE thoughts or JUST OBSESSiVE THOUGHTS (aka 'pure O') on any topic. Obsession can get so serious that it causes you to think a lot about the source of your worry and you keep on thinking worst scennarios or come up with ideas/things you can do to prevent it. Avoiding sex not to get someone or yourself pregnant would be one of those things. Don't let it get to that and control your life for you.

If you're really scared, always wear a condom, put it on using clean hands, onto clean penis and pull out before coming and just ejaculate inside the condom. This is double protection, chances of pregnancy are none.

I've been sexing like that all my life, I am almost 30 and happily childfree :)

good luck

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