Hi there, I have a few questions about masturbation that I would like someone to answer for me.
I'll start of with saying as much as I enjoy it (i am male aged 25 btw) sometimes I can't be bothered because I feel clean up is a chore after it as when I'm finished I wish i didn't do it because I feel dirty (not dirty as in sexual dirty etc but as in not clean) and I get paranoid to the point ill even shower and wash my hands like 5 times before I feel clean. Is there any reason to justify me being this paranoid over it? is semen really dirty as I feel it is?
Also afterwards I am paranoid I have done something wrong to my penis after masturbating because I have had troubles with it before such as swelling etc it's made me paranoid about. How can i enjoy it with out worrying about that so much? I have never had sex so masturbation is my only relief and I wanna do it just these things are bothering me.
I'll start of with saying as much as I enjoy it (i am male aged 25 btw) sometimes I can't be bothered because I feel clean up is a chore after it as when I'm finished I wish i didn't do it because I feel dirty (not dirty as in sexual dirty etc but as in not clean) and I get paranoid to the point ill even shower and wash my hands like 5 times before I feel clean. Is there any reason to justify me being this paranoid over it? is semen really dirty as I feel it is?
Also afterwards I am paranoid I have done something wrong to my penis after masturbating because I have had troubles with it before such as swelling etc it's made me paranoid about. How can i enjoy it with out worrying about that so much? I have never had sex so masturbation is my only relief and I wanna do it just these things are bothering me.
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Hi Rodney,
You're not alone. Lots of guys have feelings of being "dirty"after masturbation. Some of it is probably due to being told when younger that "sex is dirty." Masturbation is a healthy activity.
When you do have sex one of these days these same feelings may appear and you may have trouble with completing the act.
Have you had trouble lately with swelling? If these happened when you were younger then you probably outgrew it. If there is a continuing problem see a urologist for an exam.
I'd suggest counseling to help with the "not clean" feelings. I'm not a psychologist but it sounds a bit like a form of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD).
Hope it helps.
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Hi there, thanks for the reply in response to your answers Id say i have a bit of that OCD because of my health i've been pretty sick my life so I'm super cautious about germs etc I wont even do stuff most people do like share drinking bottles and with the swelling, no not lately but about a year ago i masturbated and my whole foreskin swelled up for a day then few months ago after getting a catheder removed (had to have one in after a spleenectomy) my whole penis swelled up bad and bruised etc really scared me, so now when I masturbate I am just paranoid about it.
One other question, would it be possible I have prostate problems at my age? because sometimes lately its like I can ejaculate but it struggles for a split second or something? and I sometimes get pain such as aching near my scrotum and anal areas (the pain can happen sometimes when not masturbating like if I feel like i need to go to the toilet to poo ill get a sharp ache near my anus) and I read prostate problems can cause similar symptoms such as this. I have been seeing a Urologist lately due to kidney stones i got after my spleenectomy and was thinking of asking him about this but I find it hard to talk to people about this stuff in person.
One other question, would it be possible I have prostate problems at my age? because sometimes lately its like I can ejaculate but it struggles for a split second or something? and I sometimes get pain such as aching near my scrotum and anal areas (the pain can happen sometimes when not masturbating like if I feel like i need to go to the toilet to poo ill get a sharp ache near my anus) and I read prostate problems can cause similar symptoms such as this. I have been seeing a Urologist lately due to kidney stones i got after my spleenectomy and was thinking of asking him about this but I find it hard to talk to people about this stuff in person.
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Hi,
It's probably not a prostate problem as such. You can get pain in your scrotum/testicles from kidney stones. I'm not sure about the "struggles" when you ejaculate.
Ask your urologist. I can understand it is hard to ask but you are an adult and won't be embarrassing the doctor. If you have to, write a note, but I think the doctor would prefer you just asking.
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i got the same problem with feeling dirty and i end up takeing like 5 showers a day
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Is there any certant way I should clean up after masturbating or any way I can do it without being messy?
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nothing wrong masturbating, i am sixty,it is a relief of tension,fantasy and imagination,i have been doing masturbation since i was 12,ENJOY
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TOO EXPENSIVE using a condom,masturbate on a tissue, when you finished ejaculating flush the tissue down the toilet, then clean your penis,no one but yourself knows you are masturbating,ENJOY the relaxing sensations!
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