Since surviving perimenopause and now nearing the end of menopause I have had NO desire for sex. Needless to say my husband is VERY upset and we have come to the point of near divorce. I can't take hormones of any kind due to blood clotting problems. My body is like the Sahara Desert, inside and out. I suffer physically from fibromyalgia and must take muscle relaxants and pain meds to ease the constant pain. My husband is not one for foreplay to begin with and this situation only makes things worse - he just lays there & expects me to initiate - I have NO desire to!!! What can I do, eat, drink, take to get some sort of sex life back into my life without crossing the Sahara Desert in excruciating pain due to the dryness and find something other than hormones to jump start the arousal button(s)? HELP ME PLEASE ?! :( :cry:
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You really should try the bioidentical hormones, they do not cause the bad side effects, just the oppposite. Good luck.
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Dear Guest,
I feel your pain...AAARGHHH!!!! I used to be very sexual until i hit meno some 5 years ago. Now, forget it, not interested at all. My husband, like yours, is starting to talk of a seperation. I can not take any kind of hormones either because of blood clots in my leg. I tried a few remedies, but nothing helps me. Some men just don't get it. My hub has taken to the interenet. (porn) and ya know, i really can't get mad, tho it does bother me some. Go to your local Natural Health Food Store and ask what they suggest, i have heard of all kinds of natural herbs that can kick start your libido. I literally force myself to participate, but honestly have not had sex since August of 08. It's hard to see myself this way because back in the day, well not patting my own back but....ya, i was rather good in the sack.
I feel bad for him but worse for myself because now i feel like i am not so much a women anymore, it is depressing to remember that one time i could burn up the sheets, now i can't even get a spark. Look into what i suggested, or you can give them a call and ask.
I feel your pain...AAARGHHH!!!! I used to be very sexual until i hit meno some 5 years ago. Now, forget it, not interested at all. My husband, like yours, is starting to talk of a seperation. I can not take any kind of hormones either because of blood clots in my leg. I tried a few remedies, but nothing helps me. Some men just don't get it. My hub has taken to the interenet. (porn) and ya know, i really can't get mad, tho it does bother me some. Go to your local Natural Health Food Store and ask what they suggest, i have heard of all kinds of natural herbs that can kick start your libido. I literally force myself to participate, but honestly have not had sex since August of 08. It's hard to see myself this way because back in the day, well not patting my own back but....ya, i was rather good in the sack.
I feel bad for him but worse for myself because now i feel like i am not so much a women anymore, it is depressing to remember that one time i could burn up the sheets, now i can't even get a spark. Look into what i suggested, or you can give them a call and ask.
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