My boyfriend is lifeless and boring in bed. He starts pleasuring me, but doesn't finish me off... because he wants me to do things to him. But once he has cummed that's it, he's done for the night and I'm left without a trace of an orgasm - he then says he's up early for work in the morning so then has to go on his stupid little app which tells him he should have gone to bed two hours ago to get a good night's sleep. I try hinting to him to 'live a little' but he stays laid on his back and is absolutely done in less than a minute of having sex. I could go all night... no lie, but with him there is no excitement. There's no pleasure for me. It's all about what he wants. He's all talk. There's never any affection... he sits on a different sofa to me and always talks about work. I love sex but he can't last and doesn't make the effort to make an evening on it. He won't have sex if he has cummed through foreplay before hand either because he thinks it will be dangerous? I tell him just clean up and put protection on and it will be fine. So what i'm trying to say is it's either he out of the blue just goes straight for sex and he lasts 3 seconds or we do foreplay and that's it after that he doesn't want to know and doesn't want to take it to sex. I am only 19 and feel life should be more exciting than this... it's like he's an old man and doesn't want any fun.
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Well effy, I'm an "old man" and I want some fun most of the time so the "old man" thing is not a good excuse. Your boyfriend is just plain not interested and he's certainly not doing his job as a boyfriend/lover. I think you need to look for a new boyfriend. It's quite normal for a guy to lose interest right after he cums, that's normal. That's why it's the guys job to do you first and do you well, like make you cum as many times as you would like before he gets his. After he does his duty by giving you earth moving, leg shaking, moaning and screaming orgasms then it's your duty to give him one. If he's unwilling to do his duty you should look for a guy who will because they are certainly out there and would love to meet a girl who could "go all night". Do it before you've wasted too much of your life like this. If he has that little interest I doubt there is anything you can do to change him.
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