Need a Girlfriend

first why do u think your so shy around women? is it intimidation or are you uncomfortable with yourself? most women like a man that hold a conversation or approaches them first. or if she approaches you and you barley say a word we feel that you are not intrested at all. women can usually pick up pretty quickly if a man has any intrest with them and if they think that your not they wont pursue it normally. i think you need to figure out why your shy and then work on that. i was shy for a long time. i finally realised it was because i always felt i wasnt good enough or pretty enough to date a person i liked. finally one day i decided that was it. i would put myself out there more and if i was rejected it was ok. i dont mean sexually either when i say put myself out there lol. and i noticed when i gained that confidence it made a big difference with my dating. im actually with a man now i had a massive crush on in highschool. he did know then i liked him. but he wasnt big into relationships throughout highschool. i always thought once again it was me. one night i went out with one of my friends a few years after we graduated and i seen him. my heart started pounding and i debated talking to him he was his friends and i thought well he didnt like me then why would he now? finally i was at the bar waiting for a drink and he walked behind me to head to the bathroom. at the last second i whipped around had a huge smile and said hi david. best decision i have ever made we now have a 3 year old daughter together and i couldnt be happier. just put yourself out there dont fear rejection it happens but you never know when that simple hello could be tye first day of the rest of your life.