Im in love with an 18 year old guy (I'm 16). I lost my virginity to him when we were in a relationship and he left me soon after. Since then he has regularly asked me to come out where he has persuaded me into performing oral sex and sex itself. He tells me he will go back out with me and so I agree. Everyone tells me to stay away from him but I've tried that and the space made me want to be with him even more. I am an intelligent girl with excellent grades, he is a drug addict and an alcoholic who is going nowhere. That is why I want to be with him, so that I can help him. People tell me to move on, but I really can't and have tried for 4 months. Does anyone have any ideas on how I can relieve myself of him or to get back with him? Thank you. Ps every time we have had sex I experience no pleasure and feel extreme pain, even when it's only his fingers. Is this normal after 4 months of sexual activities? Thankyou again.
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So first off, you really need to get over this guy. I know you probably don't want to hear this but it sounds like he's using you for sex. Which isn't a good thing. He's toying with your emotions making you think he wants you, when really he's only objectifying you. And you think you can change him? Sorry honey but there's a super small percentage that he'll ever change.
My advice to get over him is to fully invest yourself in something. Join a sports team, or a club. Create a painting or write a novel. Hang out with your friends, or put yourself back into the dating world!
Finally, about this pain while having sex. Not meaning to scare you, but it really isn't normal. It could just be the guy your with, but it could be a sign that somethings wrong down there.
Hope I helped you! Good luck!
My advice to get over him is to fully invest yourself in something. Join a sports team, or a club. Create a painting or write a novel. Hang out with your friends, or put yourself back into the dating world!
Finally, about this pain while having sex. Not meaning to scare you, but it really isn't normal. It could just be the guy your with, but it could be a sign that somethings wrong down there.
Hope I helped you! Good luck!
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